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Thomas J. Meaney

Thomas Jay Meaney, age 87, of Vero Beach, Florida and Greenville, Delaware, passed away on Wednesday, May 25, 2022 at his home in Delaware.

Tom was born in Yeadon, Pennsylvania, son of the late Thomas and Helen V. Murray Meaney. He grew up in Lansdowne, PA and graduated from Villanova University in 1956 with a degree in Mechanical Engineering. He received his Master’s Degree in Engineering from Drexel University.   Tom also taught at Villanova University.

Tom was a member of the Wilmington Country Club in Greenville, Delaware and the Moorings Country Club in Vero Beach, Florida. Tom was a competitive basketball player in college at Villanova, he enjoyed playing tennis and working around his home and garden. He especially enjoyed vacations with his family in Avalon and Ocean City, NJ.

He was an engineer working in the defense industry his entire career. He was fortunate to enjoy so many personal and business relationships throughout his industry. He retired as CEO of Mikros Systems in 2021 where he also served as president and director since 1986. Tom was dedicated to serving the US Navy, most notably with the Aegis Systems Ship Building Program, which he was instrumental in placing these systems on naval ships. Prior to Mikros, he held senior positions at Robotic Vision Systems, Inc., and Norden Systems, a division of United Technologies Corporation. As a result, of these and other professional experiences, Tom possessed a particular knowledge and experience in management, manufacturing, the defense industry, and Board practices.

In addition to his parents, Tom is predeceased by his son, who passed in 1959, Thomas Jay Jr.. He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Maureen Barry Meaney, his sons; Michael (Valerie), John (Susan), his daughters; Julie (Leonard), Maura, Liz (Mark), his 15 grandchildren; Daniel, Noel, Bridget, Tommy, Matthew, Brian, Katy, Lauren, Connor, Meghan, Ryan, Allie, TJ, Emma and Teddy, and his 2 great-grandchildren.

A Funeral Mass will be offered on Saturday, June 4, 2022 at 11:00 AM at St. Joseph’s on The Brandywine Catholic Church, 10 Old Church Road, Greenville, Delaware 19807. A visitation will be held prior at the church from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM. Interment will be held privately at the Calvary Cemetery, West Conshohocken, Pennsylvania.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made in Tom’s memory to Delaware Hospice, Inc., 16 Polly Drummond Center, 2nd Floor, Newark, DE 19711.

Funeral Services

A Funeral Mass will be offered on Saturday, June 4, 2022 at 11:00 AM at St. Joseph’s on The Brandywine Catholic Church, 10 Old Church Road, Greenville, Delaware 19807. A visitation will be held prior at the church from 10:00 AM to 11:00 AM. Interment will be held privately at the Calvary Cemetery, West Conshohocken, Pennsylvania.

Condolences

    Kathryn Liljestrand lit a candle and writes,
    Sorry to hear about Tom’s passing. I remember our many family Thanksgiving celebrations at the Meaney household. Love and prayers Kathe and Anders
    05/27/2022 07:51 pm
    JoAnne Burns lit a candle and writes,
    So sorry to hear of Tom’s passing! Joe worked with Tom for many years and thought so highly of him. My condolences to the Meaney family. JoAnne Burns
    05/28/2022 11:47 am
    Bobbee Larsson writes,
    We will miss Tom’s smile & leadership at River Mews in Vero Beach. Our Cartails will not be the same without him. Love to his wonderful family & my Vero sister, Mimi.
    05/29/2022 09:38 am
    Michael Holmes lit a candle and writes,
    From my first day meeting Tom I knew I was in the presence of a true leader and Patriot. He endowed a desire to always support the sailors and the Fleet. I will miss Tom greatly as I always enjoyed our talks and his humor. He will always be known as a true professional and my friend. My sincere condolences to the family on Tom’s passing. Be comforted in the knowledge that he no longer is in pain. God grant you peace and comfort through these difficult times of Tom’s loss
    05/30/2022 02:46 pm
    Sulaksh Shah writes,
    Please accept our deepest condolences. RIP 🙏
    05/31/2022 07:14 am
    Court Maton writes,
    Deepest sympathies on your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
    05/31/2022 10:53 am
    Louise Marino writes,
    You will be missed, Tom a Special Family member and Dear Friend 💕🇺🇸✝️The Peace That Surpasses All Understanding to Mimi and Precious Family 🌹Love&Prayers , Louise
    05/31/2022 11:43 am
    Louise Marino lit a candle and writes,
    Tom! You will be missed, a DearFamily Member and Friend, “Love and Prayers, 🙏✝️The Peace That Surpasses All Understanding , To Mimi and Family 🌹
    05/31/2022 11:52 am
    Kurt Dustin lit a candle and writes,
    Our sincere condolences to the Meaney family. Met Tom at Mikros back in 1986, he always had a great sense of humor (most of the time). Rest In Peace my friend. Kurt and Gayle Dustin
    06/01/2022 07:00 am
    Pam & Brad Gardner lit a candle and writes,
    Dearest Meaney Family, Handsome, sweet Tom will be dearly missed by all that knew him. Wishing you the warmth of family and fond memories in the difficult days ahead. Big hugs to you all. Please know you are in our thoughts. Pam & Brad Gardner
    06/02/2022 10:10 pm
    Erwin Jonas writes,
    I both worked and traveled with Tom at Dynell Electronics, Norden Systems and RVSI and thus had the good fortune of knowing him well. He was smart, he was kind, he was a good loving husband and father, he was a wise man of business, he was master at marketing and sales and a good friend. He will be and is sorely missed.
    11/21/2022 08:07 pm
    Anne Rosenbaum Vohl writes,
    Tom was the nicest boy in my high school class, Lansdowne 1952. We loved bis whole family, especially his sister Marcia.
    10/20/2023 11:47 am

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