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Thomas Ford

Surrounded by family and friends and after a weekend filled with stories and laughter, Tom Ford passed peacefully at home on August 10. No more subs on the porch, mowing the lawn, “perfectly good words” or “damn iPhone”; he’s left us to be with Margie. He is survived by his four children, Nelson, Wini, Susan and Alan, 8 grandchildren and 12 great grandchildren.

Thomas A. Ford was born in 1917 in Washington DC. He lived in Chevy Chase, MD with his parents, Thomas B. and Neva (Nelson) Ford and two older sisters until his father died during the flu epidemic in 1918. The family then moved to Laramie, Wyoming where his grandfather was the President of the University. He earned a BS in Chemistry from the University of Wyoming in 1937 and a PhD in Organic Chemistry from Yale University in 1940.

He described himself as a simple man: “one job, one wife and one house”. He went to work for DuPont as a research chemist in 1940 (he invented Tedlar) and worked at the Experimental Station for the next 42 years. He met Margaret McCain in Philadelphia in 1942; they were married in 1944 and shared 62 wonderful years together. He built a house in Hockessin in 1949 and lived there until his death.

Beneath the quiet exterior, Tom was a man of great curiosity, deep accomplishment and a lover of nature, music and travel. He was kind and had a wonderful wit, with puns and poems for every occasion. He was a trustee of his church and a founding member of the Skating Club of Wilmington. He was an original Rhythm Doctor, a swing band he started in 1942 and played lead alto saxophone until 2018. After retiring from duPont, he and Margie traveled the world, often for skating events, eclipses, urban archeology or counting giant clams. He was devoted to his family, loved being in Avalon, cheered for the Phillies and was rooted on Horseshoe Hill. Tom enjoyed almost 103 WNDRFL years.

Services will be postponed to a later date due to the current Covid-19 restrictions.

Memorial contributions can be made to the Aven Nelson Fellowship in Systematic Botany at the University of Wyoming Foundation, the Memorial Garden of Westminster Presbyterian Church at 1502 W 13th St, Wilmington, DE 19806, or the charity of your choice.

Funeral Services

Services will be postponed to a later date due to the current Covid-19 restrictions.

Condolences

    Elizabeth and Richard Miller lit a candle and writes,
    We send our deepest condolences, prayers and sympathy to all Tom’s family.
    08/12/2020 08:54 pm
    Laura Franck writes,
    I’m so sorry to hear this news, but what an amazing life well lived. Sending love and light❤️
    08/12/2020 09:02 pm
    Sarah McCarthy writes,
    A life well lived. What a role model! And those eyebrows are never to be forgottten! My love to all Fords.
    08/13/2020 12:36 am
    John White writes,
    What a wonderful life he had and the obituary captured this perfectly. One job, one wife, one house but so many accomplishments, adventures, friends and a wonderful family that will always love him.
    08/13/2020 03:40 pm
    Clare Kangas writes,
    SO very sorry for your loss, yet such wonderful memories and stories to share and to have in your hearts!
    08/14/2020 07:06 am
    Ferd and Karen Irizarry lit a candle and writes,
    We didn't know Tom, but we know Nelson and his family, and we will be forever grateful for the talented and compassionate son he raised that also served our communities and nation so well. God bless you and Godspeed, Tom.
    08/14/2020 07:35 am
    Laurie Kangas lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences & prayers to the family. What a wonderful gift he has given you, so many beautiful memories to hold in your hearts. Peace to all.
    08/14/2020 08:34 am
    William S. Norman lit a candle and writes,
    We send our deepest sympathy and prayerful thoughts to the Ford family regarding the death of an extraordinary, productive and multi-talented person. From afar and through regular contact with his son (Nelson), Thomas Ford is remembered as an inspirational family man who lived his life fully and enjoyably. In the words of the American poet, Maya Angelou, his life mission was “not merely to survive, but to thrive; and to do so with some passion, some compassion, some humor, and some style.” May his soul forever rest in peace.
    08/14/2020 03:25 pm
    Tom lit a candle and writes,
    I and others in the Community Services Unit of the New Castle County Police Senior Rollcall Lifeline had the pleasure of calling Tom every day to make sure he was well. I learned of his passing this morning and want to express to the family my deepest condolences and sorrow to hear this news. He made my day just listening to his voice. May His light shine upon him forever and may he rest in peace. He will be missed.
    08/14/2020 09:10 pm
    Sharon Hasse Murphy lit a candle and writes,
    You were blessed to have this wonderful man so long. I went to college with Wini and visited their family home which was full of love and lively conversation. My condolences to the family.
    08/15/2020 03:03 pm
    Linda Pepe Thomas lit a candle and writes,
    I also went to UD with Wini . Please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of you father. What an amazing life he lived!!!!!!!
    08/15/2020 03:36 pm
    Katherine Granfield writes,
    Lovely obit, thanks; a succinct and beautiful portrait of a beautiful man. Love to you all.
    08/16/2020 10:47 am
    Jennie Morris writes,
    I had the honor and pleasure of meeting Tom on a few occasions, though knew him best by (stellar) reputation. Tom is a legendary patriarch with a beautiful legacy of a life well-lived. My deepest sympathy and love to the Ford family in this time of loss.
    08/17/2020 10:06 am
    Phyllis Smoyer lit a candle and writes,
    We send our condolences to Tom's family. The fondest memory of Tom is of his enthusiasm on the tennis court as a member of "The Model A's," which started in 1988. We joined around 2000 and were inspired by Tom's tennis ability, wit, charm, and good sportsmanship. He was really " a man for all seasons" with his scientific knowledge and accomplishments, musical talent, athletic ability and warm personality. Bon voyage, Tom. Phyllis and John
    08/18/2020 12:10 pm
    Lee Tashjian writes,
    My sincerest condolences to the Ford family. My Father, Lee Sr., was a trombonist and a member of the Rhythm Doctors in the 1950s and 60s. As a fledgling trombone player myself, my Dad introduced me to Tom and I soon found myself playing with the Docs in the 60s and then again in the 80s when I joined the DuPont Company. Tom was without question a wonderful musician, but most of all he was a kind, generous, considerate man. I last saw Tom in 2016 when the Docs performed at Stonegates where my Mother was then residing. We had a delightful reunion and Tom still had a great sound leading the saxophone section. I had no idea he was 99 years old! Tom Ford was a true gentleman in every way!
    08/20/2020 08:37 am
    Nita Gryan lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest sympathy to the children of Mr. Ford, what a wonderful father you had, he has a special place in my heart along with your mother. Love and hugs, Nita Gryan
    08/25/2020 07:06 am
    Scott Juzwak lit a candle and writes,
    My wife and I want to send our deepest condolences and sympathy to Nelson and the rest of the Ford family. I never got the pleasure of meeting Tom but there was always an emphatic joy that came over Nelson whenever he would talk about him. What a full and complete life.
    08/26/2020 07:50 am
    Johanna Schloss writes,
    When I think of Tom Ford, I have to smile. He was a regular at our Wednesday matinees at Delaware Theatre Company for many years, and I got to know him because he attended the Viewpoints lectures I would give before the show. As he would head out the gallery door and into the theatre for the play (wearing his ubiquitous hat), he would always stop, smile, and tell me a story that was linked to the topic at hand--whether that topic was the role of college athletics, the Uncertainty Principle in physics, or the delights of jazz music and musicians. He had such a wealth of life experience and made our conversations about theatre so rich. I always looked forward to seeing him as one of my "Viewpoints regulars," and I appreciated him not just for his dedication as a subscriber since the founding of the theatre, but also for his activity and acuity throughout his life. To be able to be active and engaging, and able to smile and connect with other people, for over 100 years is something we should all aspire to. I am honored to have known him. I will--we will--miss him.
    08/31/2020 04:05 pm

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