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Robert J. Rae

Robert John Rae, age 63, of Bear, DE, formerly of Jenkintown, PA, passed away at home on August 18, 2020 surrounded by his family.

Born in 1957 in Philadelphia, PA, he was the son of the late Donald Sr. and M. Barbara Rae. Bob was a 1976 graduate of Jenkintown High School. He began a successful career in car sales in 1985, ending his career with a fantastic group at Mall Chevy in Cherry Hill, NJ.

Bob is survived by his wife of 41 years, Denise and their children Diana Rae Shaw, Nicole Rae Rittenhouse and Denise Alexandria Rae; grandchildren Thomas J. Shaw, Luca F. Shaw and Mason L. Rittenhouse. He is also survived by father-in-law, Frank Bozzi, siblings Debbie, Kevin (Peg), Donald (Maria), Barbara (Ron), Kathy (Ken), Michael (Loretta), Alex (Renee), Debbie B. (Joe), Sandy (Rob) and Denise (Paul) along with many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles and cousins.

Bob was a husband, son, brother, nephew, uncle, and friend – but the titles he was most proud of were dad and pop. He was a big kid at heart – whether it was a boat, fancy motorcycles, firearms, four wheelers, go karts, fireworks or snowmobiles, you name it, he had it and always made sure his kids and grandkids got the same. You were never near Bob without the sound of an industrial fan nearby. Cowboy boots were his primary choice of footwear, no matter the outfit. He was a lifelong Eagles fan- Go Birds! You would never ask Bob a question unless you wanted a brutally honest answer. He was someone you could call at any time, and if you needed him, he was there. A fierce protector to his family, generous, loyal and loving till the end.

A Memorial Service will be held on Thursday, September 17, 2020 at 1:00 PM at St. Margaret of Scotland Roman Catholic Church, Newark DE 19702. A visitation will be held one hour prior to the service.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to Toys for Tots or the Helen F. Graham Cancer Center and Research Institute at 4701 Ogletown Stanton Rd, Newark, DE 19713.

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A Memorial Service will be held on Thursday, September 17, 2020 at 1:00 PM at St. Margaret of Scotland Roman Catholic Church, Newark DE 19702. A visitation will be held one hour prior to the service.

Condolences

    Dante Vannicola lit a candle and writes,
    Rest In Peace my dear friend. You have no idea the impact you made on my life in our 6 years together.
    08/26/2020 04:57 pm
    Joseph J Jainnini you will be missed my friend by a lot of people and especially me lit a candle and writes,
    There are a lot of memories to share about Bob funny guy good guy Love the ride his motorcycles remember all the times that we went on the toy runs in Philadelphia
    08/26/2020 05:05 pm
    Debbie Rae Walter lit a candle and writes,
    Bobby was a great brother. He was always supportive and his obituary summed up his life perfectly . He will be missed at every family function. His generosity and heart cant be matched and he leaves behind a great family. Love, Debbie
    08/26/2020 05:28 pm
    Edward Sineni lit a candle and writes,
    You were a constant in my life for Over 33 years.I will truly miss your Calm wisdom .
    08/26/2020 05:34 pm
    Cynthia Morrisey Brouhle lit a candle and writes,
    May Bobby rest peacefully in the arms of the angels. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Cindy
    08/26/2020 05:42 pm
    joan E jackson lit a candle and writes,
    May Bobby rest in peace. Billy Bobby and I send our deepest condolences.
    08/26/2020 05:56 pm
    Dan and Joanne Reilly lit a candle and writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss. I’ve known Bob for over six years of the dealership and he will be greatly missed. God bless you and your family and again our deepest sympathy. Prayers are being said
    08/26/2020 06:28 pm
    Tricia Rae Dietzen lit a candle and writes,
    Rest in Peace Bobby. You were so loved and everyone who knew you knew how important family meant to you. Our deepest condolences especially to Denise, the girls and the grandkids.
    08/26/2020 06:32 pm
    Shannon Walter lit a candle and writes,
    Uncle Bobby was the heart of the Rae clan, a fierce protector of his girls and a hilarious uncle. He will be missed by so many but loved so dearly and forever by his daughters, grandkids, and gorgeous wife! I love you and you are missed already uncle Bobby - thanks for always having everyone’s backs. Shannon
    08/26/2020 07:36 pm
    Hope lit a candle and writes,
    So sad to hear of his passing, but also know that he left behind a fierce pack of women to carry on. Grateful that I had a chance to know him and thankful that he was supportive of all my children. I am sure there is a boat, motorcycle or fast car with his name on it in heaven. <3
    08/26/2020 08:19 pm
    B.J. WALTER lit a candle and writes,
    "THE CLOSER" I REMEMBER I WAS AROUND 12 OR 13 AND REALLY THE 1ST TIME I CAN REMEMBER BEING WOAAHHEDD BUT WHEN MY MOM, DAD AND SISTERS PULLED UP IN THE DRIVE WAY SOMEWHERE IN DELAWARE I FIRST SEE "AUNT DEES BENZ" AND MOM TELLING ME THATS ALLEN IVERSONS WIFES BENZ... TO WALKING IN AND SEEING THE BIG WHITE PILLARS AND GIANt CRABS ON THE TABLE . FROM THE GARAGE YOU HEAR THE LEATHER JACKET SOUND BUT WHEN I GOT A GLIMPSE OF THE ALLIGATOR SHOES... I KNEW THEN AND THERE WHAT I WANTED TO DO WHEN I GREW UP! 😃😃 I cant tell you enough Aunt denise, Nikki,Dee , and Diana how much i am sorry for your loss. Unle bobby was really someone that i def. Hope to be even half the man he was. I say that and really mean that. I LOVE YOU GUYS. Im sorry
    08/26/2020 10:52 pm
    Ruth Hepler lit a candle and writes,
    My condolences to your family. Bobby always was a person who took the time to make you feel happy. He will be missed.
    08/27/2020 06:37 am
    Joseph a. Klabe lit a candle and writes,
    will always be thinking of you
    08/27/2020 08:46 am
    Lynn Weimar lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences to you all. Rest in Heavenly peace.
    08/27/2020 05:45 pm
    Camilla Berry writes,
    Praying for your comfort and sorrow during this time. May of God of Peace give you comfort beyond your understanding. And may sweet memories begin to fill every moment of sadness, and enduring strength to help move you through the tough times. Live for him!
    08/27/2020 09:13 pm
    T. Wayne Lankford lit a candle and writes,
    I am very sorry to hear about Bob. I had the pleasure of knowing he and the family for many years in Jenkintown. He always gave you a straight. RIP.
    08/27/2020 10:01 pm
    Tom Walsh lit a candle and writes,
    My most sincere condolences. He was a good friend and a legendary man. He will deeply be missed.
    08/28/2020 03:47 pm
    Jamie Gabbett writes,
    I know there was a cooler of Michelob ponies and a pack of smokes waiting for you! Bob was a great funny caring man. A big part of my early years in the car business. I am forever grateful to have known such a legend. God bless
    08/28/2020 09:35 pm
    Melisa writes,
    Denise and family, So sorry to hear of your loss. May you find a little comfort in knowing that Bobby is no longer suffering. May God watch over you and provide you comfort during this difficult time. God bless, Melisa
    08/30/2020 09:02 pm
    gigi diorio lit a candle and writes,
    bobby when i first met you i was 13 you were so handsome and made my aunt dia and denise so happy the way you look at them was flawless and for the next 40 some years you still made your family smile. you were the hardest working man i ever new and you always made sure your family was ok. bob you are a wonderful father, husband and to me a friend and a brother not blood but in my heart always there for me and my family..you will be missed but never forgotten i love you..you are in my heart forever..rest our angel
    09/01/2020 07:41 pm
    Colleen Regan & Rich Werkmeister lit a candle and writes,
    We are so very sorry for your loss. The Rae family is in our thoughts and prayers.
    09/14/2020 12:54 pm
    Brad Bayard writes,
    I worked with Bob for 8yrs and knew him for over 30yrs. Under that tough exterior was a kind caring man that would always be there to help at work or outside the dealership. He called me junior and looked out for me like I was part of his family. I was part of his initial work family. He taught me so much over the years. I feel privileged to have Known and worked with him so long. He was a great person/man. The Rae’s - May the love, support and memories of your friends and family help your all through these tough times. My deepest condolences Love ya, Bob
    09/16/2020 09:39 am
    Michael Roshko lit a candle and writes,
    Bob and I worked together in my early years in the car business before transitioning to the medical field , although Bob and I were only 7 years apart, he was a mentor to me about work, life and family and anyone who knew Bob knew how much he cared about his family. He always talked about them when we were at work or out and having a beer. Bob was always someone you could count on and if you needed anything from him he would just say OK when are we doing it!! It was an honor to know him. May God continue to watch over you and the rest of your family.
    09/16/2020 11:40 pm
    Debbie Beck writes,
    Thinking of you all!! Sending hugs, love and prayers.
    09/17/2020 09:25 am
    Bob Abbott writes,
    My sincerest condolences to Denise, Bob & Denise's children, family, and loved ones. I probably hadn't seen Bob for about 40 years. It was meaningful and inspiring to read about what Bob meant to so many and who he was to his family and friends. I hope that God gives you all comfort.
    11/17/2020 01:50 pm

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