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Richard N. Smith

Richard N. Smith, age 75, son of Charles and Violet Smith, died of prostate cancer and passed on to heavenly rest on June 16, 2021. He was predeceased by his brother, Charles II (Chick); survived by his wife, Donna Smith; his son, Dr. Christopher Smith, Ph.D; his daughter-in-law, Katherine Hetrick; his beloved grandson, Conrad Smith; and his sister, Norma Saulsbury.

Richard was a graduate of University of Delaware (B.A.). Richard was a kind, very humble, and shy man who worked hard all his lifetime with perseverance. He first worked, at age 15, for Mr. Passmore at Lynthwaite Farm Dairy as a summer job. As a young man, he picked corn and baled hay at Sharpless Farms in Concordville, PA.

He survived four bank mergers, starting his career at the former Delaware Trust Co. as a management trainee. An estate trust manager and, later on, a corporate trust officer, his profession sent him to many bond closings at the original World Trade Center in New York City. After retiring, he served as a consultant at Christiana Bank.

He was a self-made man, through dedication and his strong work ethic. He loved the Brandywine School of artists, especially Howard Pyle’s painting, “Marooned,” and Andrew Wyeth. His favorite poem was Rudyard Kipling’s “If,” for its profound message and strong values. He loved studying history, especially the American Civil War and the British Industrial Revolution.

Richard converted to the Catholic faith after his son Christopher was born, and attended St. Mary Magdalen Church in Wilmington, DE. His family background was Grace Episcopal Church, on Concord Pike, where Richard was an altar boy.

The Smith family wishes to thank Nurturing Angels Home Care and VITAS Hospice Care for their compassionate attention to Richard in his final months.

Funeral Services

A graveside service will be held at Grace Episcopal Church Cemetery at 10 am on Saturday, September 18, 2021 .

Condolences

    Deborah Bowers lit a candle and writes,
    Richard was a wonderful boss. He was so understanding, compassionate and truly a great friend. I was so sad to hear of his passing and pray he is now pain-free and in a much better place. He will definitely be missed. Rest in my peace my friend! 🙏❤️
    06/18/2021 09:56 am
    Brenda Harclerode writes,
    Donna, This is your second cousin, Brenda,( Mary Ann Gore Davis) I am so sorry to hear of your husband's passing. My sisters and I were just wondering a few weeks ago if anyone from the family was in touch with you. Although we heard your name many times when we were young from your mom, for she was very proud of you, the only memory I have of you is at your wedding in Delaware. Our mother, Mary went to heaven in March. I pray the Lord will comfort you and your family . Brenda ( Davis) Harclerode
    06/19/2021 03:53 pm
    Helen Hurilla writes,
    I am so sorry for your loss. I will always think of Richard fondly. He was such a gentleman and truly cared about others. Richard was a tremendous help to me when I started at Delaware Trust 30 years ago and I am still thankful for his assistance. He shared a book with me about the history of Delaware Trust as I know he was proud to work there. It was so thoughtful of him. I know he will be missed. My God comfort and bless you.
    06/20/2021 10:53 am
    Virginia Shea Feeley writes,
    Norma, I was so sorry to hear of Richard's death. My first thought was that he was much too young but then reality set in, we are all getting older although we don't always feel our age. My condolences to you and the family. As you may recall, I am now living in my parents house which is next door to where your parents lived on Nichols Ave. He is Gone (Anonymous) You can shed tears that he is gone Or you can smile because he lived. You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back, Or you can open your eyes and see all he's left. Your heart can be empty because you can't see him, Or you can be filled with the love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live for yesterday, Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday. You can remember him and only that he's gone, Or you can cherish his memory and let him live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty, and turn your back, Or you can do what he'd want, smile, open your eyes, love, and go on.
    09/20/2021 03:27 pm

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