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Neil Lunt Campbell, II

Neil Lunt Campbell II of Palm Beach Shores, Florida and Hockessin, Delaware passed away June 3rd at the age of 78.

He was the oldest child born to Roberta (Byus) and John S. Campbell of Salem, NJ. He graduated from George School, West Nottingham Academy, Bradley University and later the National Trust School at Northwestern University. Summers during high school and college were spent working at his family’s company, Mannington Mills. After college he attended the US Army Officer Candidate School and served as a second Lieutenant in the 50th Engineer Co. as well as the platoon leader of the 495th Engineer Co in Vietnam where he was responsible for port construction. He returned home and worked at PNC Bank for years in the Estate settlement and Trust office, and later for himself as a Certified Financial Counselor in Wilmington, Delaware. He was fortunate to have two loving marriages, the first to Deborah Happ in 1967. They had two children, Nicole and Ian. After her passing, he married Mary Roberts in 2000.

Dad was a well known lifelong avid boater, owning 12 boats and earning his Coast Guard Captains license along the way. He and his family completed the Great Loop in 1989 after a year of circumnavigation. He made numerous voyages to his beloved Bahamas and made sure every trip otherwise involved being on the water.

He was easygoing and steady, but also loved a good party. A great listener and endless conversationalist, he was quick to shed tears laughing at the same three jokes he liked to tell over and over. He was reasonable and regimented, never on time but early for everything. He was a creature of habit, wearing the same glasses, boat shoes and rotating polo shirt for decades, always had the same Sunday breakfast (eggs and scrapple) and was devoted to Antiques Roadshow unless the Eagles were playing. He never raised his voice unless there was dirt on his boat, and was equally at home at a tiki bar or black tie event. He was a walking encyclopedia of Civil War, World War II and Clan Campbell history and he was never wrong. We thought he may have been once, but we were mistaken. Most importantly, every evening at 5pm he enjoyed a cocktail on the dock to take in the sunset with friends and family. In his honor we raise our rum and diet Cokes and invite you to do the same often.

He was preceded in death by his father Jack, mother Roberta, first wife Debbie and brother David. He is survived by his second wife Mary, daughter Nikki (Ben) McLeod of Bend, Oregon, son Ian (Alissa) Campbell of Acworth, Georgia, sister Nancy of Manhattan, sister in law Jeanne of Hancocks Bridge, New Jersey, grandchildren Liam, Campbell, Caralynn, Jack and Gavin as well as seven nieces and nephews.

 

 

 

Funeral Services

A private gravesite service will be held Wednesday, June 10th at the Red Clay Creek Presbyterian Church at 500 McKennans Church Road, Wilmington, Delaware at 10am. Due to current circumstances, a drive through observation may be made at 10:30am. In lieu of flowers, please consider a memorial donation to the rebuilding efforts of the Abacos Islands of the Bahamas at the Hope Town Volunteer Fire and Rescue or Hospice of Palm Beach County.

 

 

Condolences

    Ellis and Bonnie Underkoffler writes,
    Dear Nikki and Ian, We were saddened to read of your father's passing. We remember him fondly from our years living in Meetinghouse Meadow. We especially remember his easygoing manner and his pride in his boats. We were there to see the one that took you on your year-long voyage of the Great Loop and to wish you "Bon Voyage". Although it has been many years since we last saw him and you both as well, we were glad to read how he enjoyed his life and we'll, indeed, raise a glass to honor him. You and your families will be in our thoughts and prayers in the days and weeks ahead. Ellis and Bonnie Underkoffler
    06/08/2020 10:51 am
    Sue McDermott writes,
    Neil Campbell, what a kind and always pleasant man. Nikki and Ian, I worked with your mother in the 1970's and had the pleasure of meeting your dad during those years. I have only fond memories of your parents. As you know, they were good people. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Mary, we did meet a few times years ago and my heart goes out to you. Jim and I will raise our Cokes at 5pm in the days to come and remember Debbie and Neil. Sue McDermott
    06/08/2020 11:32 pm
    Karan and JD writes,
    Thank you for the obituary that was a beautiful tribute to Neil. Our fond memories include so many of those noted. We enjoyed laughing and learning with Neil. I always admired the clear and strong ways he showed his love for those he cared about. We are deeply saddened by his loss and offer our love and prayers to the family.
    06/10/2020 08:02 am
    Franz and Rosemarie Portmann writes,
    Thinking of you Nicky and Ian at the meeting House meadow where we lived. I remember Tanja babysitting you. Many fond memories! Your father was a very kind and quiet man. Our deepest condolences are with you and the family
    06/10/2020 09:53 am

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