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John “Jack” E. Healy, III

John Edward Healy III (Jack)— lifelong builder, devoted family man, proud public servant, and friend to all—passed away peacefully on January 28, 2026, at the age of 78.

Born in 1947, Jack was the 2nd of 7 children born to John and Margaret Healy and raised in Wilmington, Delaware. He grew up in the family home on Nenagh Drive—affectionately known as “Healyville”—a lively, loud, love-filled house overflowing with siblings, cousins, and neighborhood friends. The street itself was named in honor of the Healys’ roots in Nenagh, Ireland, a heritage Jack carried with pride throughout his life.

A proud “Bulldog,” Jack attended St. Mary Magdalen School and graduated from Brandywine High School in 1965. As a teenager and young adult, he also served his community as a Talleyville firefighter—an early sign of his lifelong commitment to service. Shortly thereafter, Jack was drafted into the United States Air Force and proudly served his country during the Vietnam War era, stationed in Okinawa, Japan. During this time, he married his high school sweetheart and forever soulmate, Karen. Shortly after, the couple welcomed their first child, beginning the family that would become Jack’s greatest joy.

In 1978, Jack co-founded Healy, Long & Jevin with his longtime friend Bobby Long, carrying forward the legacy of his family’s construction business, John E. Healy & Sons, founded in 1891. Under Jack’s leadership, HLJ became known for its excellence, integrity, and craftsmanship, contributing to numerous landmark projects including the Mellon Bank Building in Philadelphia and the Bell Atlantic Tower. Jack was deeply respected in his industry and served on the boards of the General Building Contractors Association (GBCA), the Delaware Contractors Association (DCA), the St. Patrick’s Day Society, the Delaware State Chamber of Commerce, St. Francis Hospital, Archmere Academy, and the Concrete Contractors Association.

Jack’s happy place was Stone Harbor, NJ. He and Karen built their forever family vacation home on the bay. Fishing, dips in the bay, cocktails on the beach, sunset views, and dinners on the deck with family and friends were where he found his greatest peace and joy.

A man of deep faith, Jack attended daily Mass and lived his beliefs through kindness, quiet generosity, and humility. He was an unwavering father and grandfather—present, supportive, and endlessly proud. He lived by simple mottos, often reminding those around him: “Smile, and the world smiles with you. Frown, and you frown alone.” It perfectly captured his belief in optimism, resilience, and choosing joy and humor—even when life was hard.

In later years, Jack enjoyed traveling with their “Den 1” group, scuba diving, golfing with friends at Wilmington Country Club before eventually settling at Country House, where he formed new friendships and a fresh audience for his stories.

Jack is survived by his beloved wife of 57 years, Karen Healy; his children, Lori Scarpaci (Shawn), Sean Healy (Shannon), Colleen Corrado (Joey), and Megan Corey (Jeff); and his fourteen cherished grandchildren: Ava, Jack, Sophia, Lydia, Scarlett, Jett, Sloane, Colt, Trey, Gavin, Teagan, Vivian, Emerson, and Holden. He is also survived by his siblings, TJ, Michael, Billy, Kevin, Nancy and his adored nieces and nephews.  He was predeceased by his parents and his sister, Peggy.

Jack’s life was built—quite literally—on a foundation of faith, family, service, love, and making people laugh.  His legacy lives on in the structures he helped create, the family he adored, and the countless lives he touched.

A Visitation will be held on Thursday, February 5, 2026, from 4:00 to 8:00 PM at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, DE. 19803.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, February 6, at 11:00 AM at St. Mary Magdalen Church, 7 Sharpley Road,  Wilmington, DE 19803. Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests donations to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation.

 

For online condolences please visit www.Chandlerfuneralhome.com.

Funeral Services

A Visitation will be held on Thursday, February 5, 2026, from 4:00 to 8:00 PM at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, DE. 19803.  A Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday, February 6, at 11:00 AM at St. Mary Magdalen Church, 7 Sharpley Road,  Wilmington, DE 19803. Burial will be private.

Condolences

    Gerry Samson writes,
    The Samson Family sends their condolences to the Healy family. May he Rest in Peace🙏
    01/30/2026 10:29 am
    Sophia Scarpaci lit a candle and writes,
    I love you PopPop. I hope you are doing all of your favorite things up there - eating a bunch of cookies and ice cream (and all of the sweets), drinking an orange crush, bodysurfing in Stone Harbor and laughing with your parents and your friends. “I will endure a lifetime of missing you, for the privilege of loving you.”
    01/30/2026 10:29 am
    Vince Cardella lit a candle and writes,
    Jack treated me like I was part of his family, always. I have never met a nicer person and will never forget the impact he had on my life, personally. I loved to listen to his stories. My favorite was the one about the first time he peeled potatoes in the Airforce. I still think of that story often, and it makes me laugh every time. My family and I will be forever grateful for the opportunities this man has afforded us. He took care of countless families, enabling them to put food on their tables, roofs over their heads, and pay their bills. Truly a man amongst men, and one I am proud to say was my friend. I will miss him dearly, and remember him always.
    01/30/2026 10:34 am
    Joe Hunter lit a candle and writes,
    I am Very saddened to hear this news Jack was a gentle giant and always had a kind word to say to me. It was an honor to be able to work for him. My thoughts and my prayers go out to his entire family he was truly a pioneer in the Concrete business he will be missed
    01/30/2026 10:37 am
    Tim Robinson lit a candle and writes,
    Great man to work for. Always backed his people 100%. He cares about people around him. He will surely be missed by many people in Pennsylvania, Delaware and New Jersey areas. Couldn’t ask for a better leader and role model.
    01/30/2026 10:51 am
    Mark Christian writes,
    Jack was a true gentleman in business and his personal life. A man who would seal a deal with a handshake and always delivered what he promised. A man of honesty and integrity built on the foundation of his Catholic faith
    01/30/2026 11:08 am
    Al Rosa lit a candle and writes,
    I offer my condolences to the Healy Family. Jack was a true gentleman and very respected by everyone in the construction industry. I remember him giving me advice and words of wisdom as a young Superintendent. The construction industry lost a great man!
    01/30/2026 11:45 am
    Carol Dorsey Cairo writes,
    Sending my condolences to you and your family during this difficult time. Losing our other half is never easy. May the memories of your life together help you in the days ahead. Sending my prayers and thoughts to you and your family.🙏
    01/30/2026 12:31 pm
    Bill Pace lit a candle and writes,
    Cheers to a great Irishman, person, and friend. You certainly leave many happy memories for your family and friends to cherish. 🍻 ☘️
    01/30/2026 01:00 pm
    Mike Williams writes,
    Jack was a great guy - I remember his smile; work with Jack on many projects., Condolences to his family,
    01/30/2026 01:38 pm
    Amy Rydlewski lit a candle and writes,
    Mr. Healy gave me an opportunity 29 years ago, almost to the day of his passing, that changed everything for me. He hired me, with no experience whatsoever, to work in the office at Healy & Long. Since then, I've been challenged, learned alot, and, most importantly, got to experience knowing and loving one of the best men on this planet. Mr. Healy would tell me at every opportunity that I was his success story and it always meant the world to me. This is a great loss for anyone who truly knew him. Mr. Healy, you will be dearly missed and fondly remembered always.
    01/30/2026 02:00 pm
    Maddie Lutes writes,
    I’m so so sorry for your loss sending so much love and prayers to the entire Healy family!❤️🙏
    01/30/2026 02:58 pm
    Louis T Parise lit a candle and writes,
    Worked many a project with Jack. He was a great guy. God bless him.
    01/30/2026 03:12 pm
    Robin Brennan lit a candle and writes,
    Im so sorry for your loss. Prayers for Karen, their children and the entire Healy family. May happy memories of Jack help carry you through this trying time.
    01/30/2026 04:03 pm
    Amy OFlynn lit a candle and writes,
    Jack you were one of a kind. I feel honoured to have spent the time with you I did, and it was a privilege to have been apart of your family for so many years. Your smile, humour & warmth are something I’ll never forget. Sending all my love and prayers to the entire Healy family. Love always x
    01/30/2026 04:58 pm
    Linda Lange lit a candle and writes,
    Karen I am so sorry for you and all of your family. I know your hearts are broken. Wishing you comfort and God's peace. Love and Prayers, Linda
    01/30/2026 05:53 pm
    Andrea Rogers lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Karen, Sending you and your family our deepest sympathy and sincere condolences. Keeping you all in our prayers. Remembering our times together with you and Jack - serving on committees and working on the after-prom together at Archmere, becoming close neighbors on Hill Rd., celebrating Christmas Eve with your family at your house, having dinner together with Bobby and Carole at their house after they moved, and seeing you at Kelly’s Logan House on St. Patrick’s Day. Hoping that happy memories of your life with Jack, and knowing that others care, will bring you comfort and peace at such a sad time. May Jack rest in peace and may God bless you. Andrea & Tony Rogers
    01/30/2026 06:11 pm
    Bob Lilley lit a candle and writes,
    The "Great" men always wear the "White Hats", just like you....You did "Great" Jack...It's now time to rest....RIP...
    01/30/2026 06:47 pm
    Virginia tryon smilack writes,
    Karen, very sorry for your loss. You were blessed to have 57 years with your beloved husband. May your memories bring you comfort as you share memories with all those that loved him and love you.
    01/30/2026 07:10 pm
    Joy Haughey writes,
    Such a wonderful man, we felt like we were part of your family when we visited you You made our holiday something we will cherish forever Jack you will always be have a special place in our hearts ! Sending our love and prayers to all the family xxx
    01/31/2026 12:35 am
    OSMAN FARID writes,
    Mes sincères Condoléances
    01/31/2026 03:35 am
    Andrew Long writes,
    Jack was a great man. He always took time to say hi and cared about his workers. He will be missed.
    01/31/2026 08:18 am
    fr joemcmahon writes,
    warm thoughts in memory of a saint!
    01/31/2026 09:45 am
    Tom Delate writes,
    RIP Jack. The Healyville memories live on. Condolences to your family.
    01/31/2026 10:43 am
    Cousin, Sharon Kelly Baker writes,
    Jackie was Mom's Godchild and faithfully attended the annual birthday gatherings we had for her as she got older. He was there at the last one in 2019, sharing stories and making her laugh. I hope they are meeting up in The Mystic!
    01/31/2026 10:59 am
    Diane Snyder Anderson lit a candle and writes,
    It’s so hard to say goodbye to someone who has been in your life for over 50 years. Jack, you will always be in our hearts until we’re all together again in heaven. It’s not goodbye, it’s “see ya on the other side.” We love ya, Buddy.
    01/31/2026 12:25 pm
    Janet Hennessy writes,
    Karen, so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to you and your family. 💗
    01/31/2026 08:27 pm
    Annmarie pawlowicz writes,
    Condolences to the Healy family. He was one of the good guys.
    02/01/2026 07:50 am
    Karen Robinson Guagent writes,
    Dear Karen, Just want to send you my sincere condolence. Losing a loved one is so very hard. I will pray for you. Karen
    02/01/2026 10:34 am
    Paul Breger writes,
    Condolences to the Healy family! Jackie and I were classmates at “St. Mary Mags”. He was always a gentleman who loved listening to and sharing life experiences with a bit of humor. May he rest in peace!
    02/01/2026 12:05 pm
    Ted Dwyer writes,
    Jack was a great man and a good friend. He founded and ran a great concrete construction company. We could always depend on his company's work being top quality. The Delaware Community and construction industry has lost a great man. My condolences to Karen and the family.
    02/01/2026 01:45 pm
    EDWARD C PANKOWSKI lit a candle and writes,
    Jack was a great man and friend who helped out many many people over the years… I did some legal work for him over the years as his attorney… Rest in peace my friend… We will all miss you!
    02/01/2026 06:32 pm
    Wayne Kudenchak lit a candle and writes,
    I first met Jack in July 1987at the Princeton Forrestal Village project. From that day on he was nothing more than a gentleman and a help to my career. No matter how busy he was, he took the time to say hello, make sure all was well on the project and to be lite hearted. He was a true gentleman, well respected in the industry and made you feel like family. Jack will be missed but always remembered.
    02/02/2026 10:13 am
    John Newlin lit a candle and writes,
    Jack was a great neighbor, a good friend, and oh so generous and helpful. One of the things my wife Dodo and I recall about Jack was that he gave our son a job in his firm for a summer, something he did not have to do. He will be missed by so many people.
    02/02/2026 10:37 am
    Jennifer Welding Cellucci writes,
    Dear Karen, Megan, and family, please accept our sincerely condolences in light of Jack's passing. He truly set the standard as husbands and dads go. My dad always spoke highly of him and valued his wit and wisdom in business and out on the town. He was a good friend and confidante. May his memory be a blessing. May his spirit live on in his grandchildren.
    02/02/2026 11:23 am
    Sam Waltz lit a candle and writes,
    My wife Sandi and I send our Prayers for the Peace that Passeth Understanding on the occasion of Jack's passing. Via Delaware's robust business community, Jack and I had known each other and been friends for decades, at least 30 years. Indeed, he was "a great guy well met." We always enjoyed our time together, and our paths crossed quite often. Jack Healy was a fine man, and we will miss him here.
    02/02/2026 08:01 pm
    Rosemarie Semonche writes,
    My deepest sympathy and prayers to all the Healy Family.
    02/03/2026 07:21 am
    Joy Greggo writes,
    Vincent & I, along with Peter, Patti, Kim, and Eugene, send our deepest condolences to you all. Jack was a great man. A life well lived.
    02/03/2026 09:34 am
    Thomas Delle Donne writes,
    To Sean and Family: My deepest sympathy at the loss of your beloved father and grandfather. Jack, Jett and Colt, I am sure your grandfather took great joy in watching all of you compete and enjoy football and other sports. He has created a legacy that all of you continue to carry on in business, sport and most importantly faith and family. My deepest sympathy and may God Bless your entire family at this difficult time. Coach Tommy
    02/03/2026 05:17 pm
    Steve Markley writes,
    I remember the first time I met Jack. 1986 in a conference room at Barclay White. Wayne Dunlap and Jack went at each other for 10 minutes. I was a 28 year old bystander. At the end they closed the deal. No computers. No cell phones. Just a handshake between two men who kept there word.
    02/03/2026 07:05 pm
    Melinda Hyde Girardi writes,
    I am so very sad to hear about Jack !! I grew up in the Healy house on Neigh drive ! I tried so hard to be a Hyde -Healy adopted child !! Lovingly , named Wanda by Mr.Healy , the name stuck with all the Healy family ! My prayers and sincere condolences 💐 to Karen , and all the family 🩷
    02/04/2026 06:21 am
    John Kurzenberger writes,
    My deepest sympathies to the entire Healy family. Fond memories of Jack and his steadfast support to all, especially to Bruce (Peggy) and I during our business venture back in the 90's. Always picture him with his warm smile. Rest in Peace Jack.
    02/05/2026 09:30 am
    James Sullivan and Terry Sullivan lit a candle and writes,
    Karen, We are very sorry we are unable to attend the viewing tonight and Mass tomorrow. Jack’s legacy is one that all the Healys should cherish. A great leader, businessman, father, grandfather and man of God. When our son Brendan was talking about not attending college between his Junior and Senior years at Sallies, I asked Jack to give him a “rough” summer job that would convince him that college would be a good idea. Jack found him such a job and Brendan was ready to attend college by the second week! It was an honor to call him our friend and he taught everyone how important it is to treat everyone with respect and his humor was infectious. . May Jesus and Mary welcome him with love and open arms. Jim and Terry Sullivan
    02/05/2026 10:31 am
    Maria Kohler Mockbee lit a candle and writes,
    My sincere condolences to the family. My husband Stephen spoke so highly of Jack as a good businessman and a genuinely kind man. May his soul rest in peace.
    02/05/2026 11:09 am
    John Carney lit a candle and writes,
    Always loved being around Jack. I would always get a big smile and a positive greeting when I saw him. He was especially proud of his family, his business and his Irish heritage. There was something special that you could see in that twinkle in his eye when he spoke to you. Just made you feel good about life. We will miss him.
    02/05/2026 03:54 pm
    David Singleton writes,
    We've lost a truly good guy. I first knew Jack in 1984-86 when he was doing the concrete for a project I was managing. For the past several years he was our friend and neighbor at the Country House, while still offering wisdom on a question I asked him about concrete. He will be greatly missed by us and so many others. Elaine and I send our condolences to the family.
    02/06/2026 07:52 am
    Julie Topkis Nason writes,
    My heart is with your family as Jack was such a wonderful man and I loved working with him through the years during my St Francis days!!! He will be missed and Karen and family we are thinking of you!! Love, Julie Topkis Nason
    02/06/2026 08:03 am
    Kello Wells writes,
    Jack ((Pop), When I remember you I’ll always think of words like Honorable, Charismatic, Inviting, and most of all Caring. You met me at Jiffy lube and we built a relationship that’s lasted close to 10 years! You believed in me and brought me into your family. Your were more than boss ! A mentor, protector, and most of all family. You’ll be truly missed! Love you Pop for Everything!
    02/06/2026 09:38 am
    gaba steele writes,
    Dear Karen….May he rest in peace. 🙏
    02/06/2026 10:41 am
    Gaba Steele writes,
    Though I did not know Jack well, I have heard such beautiful things about him from friends….he was in PT with my husband Bob for Parkinson’s and showed him such friendliness and wisdom May you rest in eternal and well deserved peace Jack and condolences to your family …🙏🙏
    02/06/2026 11:09 am

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