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Joan Barnhill Reveyoso

Joan Barnhill Reveyoso, beloved wife of Steven Reveyoso, passed away on Tuesday evening, September 15, 2026.

Joan was born in Wilmington, Delaware in 1950 to Muriel and Dr. George T. Barnhill. She attended the Tatnall School in Wilmington, where her mother taught, and, later, Temple University in Philadelphia. There, she majored in music and sang in the Temple University Choirs under its Director of Choruses, Robert E. Page. During her career, Joan sang and recorded under such conductors as Claudio Abbado, Michael Gielen, Zubin Mehta, Eugene Ormandy and William Steinberg. In September, 1970, she, along with the Chorus, sang the United States Premiere of Krzysztof Penderecki’s “Utrenja, The Entombment of Christ” with vocal soloists and the Philadelphia Orchestra conducted by Eugene Ormandy. These performances were followed by the work’s premiere recording for the RCA label. The following year, in September, 1971, these forces gave the first performances of the “The Lovers” by Samuel Barber. As a member of the Temple University Choirs, Joan also participated in the opening performances of the Kennedy Center in Washington, D.C., the same month and year.

A Lyric Soprano, Joan studied with soprano Marni Nixon and, in May, 1991, made her professional solo debut at Weill Recital Hall in New York City performing Joseph Canteloube’s “Songs of the Auvergne”. Joan also has performed for the New York City Lighthouse for the Blind and Visually Impaired.

Joan and Steven Reveyoso were married on July 19, 1997 in Wilmington. In addition to her husband, Joan is survived by her sister, Ethel (Feffie) Barnhill, her uncle Glenn Barnhill and her cousins, Glenn and Jimmy Barnhill and Deborah Diver, as well as her mother-in-law, Velma Mayfield, her brothers-in-law Jean-Paul Reveyoso and Myron Mayfield, her sister-in-law Valerie Reveyoso, as well as nieces, nephews and friends.

A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, October 3, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at the Lower Brandywine Presbyterian Church, 101 Old Kennett Road, Wilmington, DE 19807. Burial will follow in the church cemetery.

Donations can be made in Joan’s memory to the Light House Guild, 250 West 64th Street, New York, NY 10023 (https://lighthouseguild.org/) or The Joan Barnhill Reveyoso ‘68 Memorial Fund at The Tatnall School, 1501 Barley Mill Road, Wilmington, DE 19807 (https://give.tatnall.org/campaigns/joan1968).

 

Funeral Services

A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, October 3, 2026 at 11:00 a.m. at the Lower Brandywine Presbyterian Church, 101 Old Kennett Road, Wilmington, DE 19807. Burial will follow in the church cemetery.

Condolences

    Jean Paul and Valerie Reveyoso writes,
    Beloved Joan, May God welcome you with open arms into his beautiful and mighty kingdom! Your light, talents and witty spirit will always be remembered and loved by all who shared your journey. We will cherish all the memories of you forever. You were and are an incredible person and you are missed! Love JP and Valerie Reveyoso
    09/25/2026 10:24 am
    Ava Bingham Reynolds lit a candle and writes,
    Stephen, reading about your beloved and wonderfully gifted wife, Joan, warmed my heart! I know her mere presence deeply enriched your life as well as so many touched by her bright, earthly abode! On behalf of the family of the late Rev. Dr. Lincoln N. Bingham and the Roger Reynolds family, we express our deepest condolences. May God comfort you today and always. May sweet memories flood your heart and melodies of joy lift your spirit. Love, Ava Bingham Reynolds, Louisville, KY
    09/26/2026 03:35 pm
    Maggie McVeigh writes,
    I am saddened to hear of the passing of my old friend and NYC neighbor Joan. She was a woman of great spirit and accomplishments, and as single Manhattanites living in the same Upper East Side building, we shared many evenings together dining out or attending theatrical and musical events, including her own. I attended her recital at Weill and her wedding to Steven in Wilmington. It’s been decades since we lost touch, but I’ve no doubt that her spirit and determination endured throughout her married life, wherever that took her. Condolences to Steven and Feffie, who I remember fondly. Maggie (Peggy) McVeigh
    09/27/2026 01:44 pm
    Michael Reid writes,
    Please send my deepest sympathies to Joan’s family. She was a dear, funny, talented colleague from the choir at St Bart’s. I was delighted to hear her in sound of music and several cabaret evenings, as well!
    09/29/2026 11:03 am
    Holly Keaveny-McCool lit a candle and writes,
    Deepest Condolences and prayers for the family.
    10/02/2026 03:47 pm
    Nick writes,
    Joan, love you and miss you!
    10/03/2026 02:31 pm
    Nicki lit a candle and writes,
    Gone too soon.
    10/03/2026 02:35 pm

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