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Howard “Howdy” Cameron Giles, Jr.

Howard (Howdy) Cameron Giles, Jr. passed away on February 3, 2026 at the age of 84, surrounded by his loving family.

Born in 1942, Howdy was the oldest of two children born to Howard and Mary Giles. A native of Wallingford, Pennsylvania, he grew up with the steady, grounded values that shaped everything he later became: a loyal friend, a trusted dentist, a loving husband and father, and a man whose enthusiasm for life was as genuine as it was contagious. As a boy, Howdy was an accomplished swimmer and competed on the Nether Providence High School swim team. He later swam at the University of Delaware, where he met the love of his life, Carolyn—his Sig Ep sweetheart. They were married for 57 years, sharing a life filled with adventure, laughter, and unwavering devotion. Together they raised their daughters, Robin and Julie, in Wilmington, Delaware, building a family life rich with travel, skiing, and many memorable golf trips. Carolyn’s passing in 2021 was a profound loss, yet Howdy carried her spirit with him in every memory, every story, and every moment spent with their cherished grandchildren.

After graduating from the University of Delaware, Howdy attended dental school at Temple University. Following dental school, he served in the U.S. Navy as a resident dentist aboard ships in San Diego, California, and New London, Connecticut. In 1970, he moved to Wilmington, where he and Carolyn planted their roots. In 1975, along with three partners, he founded Dental Associates of Delaware, which ultimately expanded to multiple offices throughout the state. For more than four decades, he cared for generations of families with a gentle hand and a warm, easygoing presence. His patients knew him not just as their dentist, but as someone who remembered their stories and treated them with the same kindness he showed everyone in his life. He retired in 2011, leaving behind a legacy of professionalism, compassion, and trust.

Beyond dentistry, Howdy’s life took on a remarkable dimension through his friendship with golf legend Arnold Palmer. What began in 1962 as a spark of inspiration—seeing Palmer on television—grew into a lifelong bond. Howdy became one of the most devoted members of “Arnie’s Army,” eventually forming a personal friendship with Palmer that spanned decades, countless tournaments, and innumerable shared memories, as documented in the book he had published titled “The King and I”.

Howdy had many passions. Golf was a huge part of his life, and he enjoyed being a member of Wilmington Country Club, Pine Valley Golf Club, Bay Hill Club and Lodge, Latrobe Country Club and the Royal & Ancient Golf Club in St. Andrews, Scotland. Another lifelong love was photography; he quite literally took millions of photos and never went anywhere without his camera. He was an avid sports fan—an Eagles season ticket holder for more than 50 years and a devoted Phillies fan. He served as a U.S.G.A. Rules Official and traveled the country officiating at U.S. Opens, U.S. Senior Opens, and U.S.G.A. Junior Amateur Championships. He was also an enthusiastic member of the U.S. Seniors’ Golf Association and the Fairway Club, where he formed many of his lifelong friendships.

In his later years, Howdy remained active, vibrant, and deeply connected to the people and places he loved. He continued to spend winters in Orlando, enjoying time with friends at Bay Hill. He recently moved to The Country House in Wilmington, where he met new friends and reconnected with old ones. He continued to play golf once or twice a week and still found joy in the game that had shaped so much of his life.

To remember Howdy is to remember a man who lived fully and generously—a man who cherished friendship, treated others with kindness, adored his family, and found profound joy in capturing moments through a camera lens. He pursued his passions wholeheartedly and loved telling stories. His spirit lives on in every story shared, every photograph cherished, and every round of golf played with a smile. Above all, Howdy loved being “PopPop” to his grandchildren, rarely missing a swim meet, a game, a milestone, or a chance to cheer them on.

Howdy is survived by his children, Robin Elliott (David) and Julie Kelly (Matt), and his four adored grandchildren: Giles, Cameron, Luke, and Lindsay. He was predeceased by his wife, Carolyn; his parents; and his sister, Judy.

Funeral Services

A Celebration of Life will be held at Wilmington Country Club on Saturday, February 21, from 2:30–5:30 p.m., with brief remarks at 4:00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Acts Legacy Foundation, 420 Delaware Drive, Fort Washington, PA 19034 for the Country House WillowBrooke Court Fund.

Condolences

    Kim Dunn lit a candle and writes,
    What a lovely obituary What a wonderful man RIP Howdy
    02/06/2026 04:26 pm
    Day Ryan writes,
    A man who made you smile every time you seen him . Howdy made you feel special and heaven got another angel
    02/06/2026 07:37 pm
    Davis Sezna writes,
    What a loss of a wonderful person! Howdy was either happy to see a friend or making a new one. If anyone could, Howdy will have his camera in heaven, and hopefully share those treasured photographs with us all, as he did always here on earth. He might even capture God and Jesus playing in the ultimate Father and Son Golf Championship. May God bless you my friend and may you rest in peace, Davis
    02/07/2026 06:45 am
    Tom Joseph writes,
    Sharing my thoughts and prayers.
    02/07/2026 08:42 am
    Parm writes,
    A good man gone. He gave me so much: time, friendship, wisdom and more. He was added value to my life for certain. Doc will truly be missed by all. Deepest sympathy to all his family and friends who share in this loss and these same sentiments. Parm.
    02/07/2026 09:06 am
    ron read lit a candle and writes,
    Knowing Howdy for over 50 yrs made me a luckier man.
    02/07/2026 09:58 am
    Ron Guerra writes,
    Giles family, My condolences on the loss of Howdy. I enjoyed the last several years playing golf and social aspects of the Fairway Club with Howdy. RIP Howdy. God bless.
    02/08/2026 10:35 am
    Tom Nolan lit a candle and writes,
    The world lost an amazing man, father, husband, grandfather, friend. Howdy was truly one of a kind who always started from a place of gratitude. Lit up every room he was in. Irreplaceable. Deepest condolences to the family - in our thoughts and prayers. Rest in peace, Howdy - hit 'em straight up there with your good pal, Arnie.
    02/08/2026 10:51 am
    John Thompson writes,
    Howdy, a wonderful man who never met a stranger. Rest in peace, my friend.
    02/08/2026 11:29 am
    Judith W Quinn writes,
    Howdy was a high school friend, classmate and prom date. We were able to connect a few years ago through golf. My husband and I enjoyed seeing him again as he and Caroline were such fun to be around. He was a good guy, friend and family man. Our condolences to his family. Judy and Dick Quinn.
    02/08/2026 07:53 pm
    Michael OBrien writes,
    Howdy and I forged our friendship only in recent years but determined we had crossed paths several times in our lives before we had actually met personally. He quickly became a pal and we shared fun memories of practicing dentistry, serving in the Navy, and golf. Such a gracious and sincere man in the short time I knew him - he even offered to take my son and brother-in-law to Bay Hill but his health issues precluded what would have been a tremendous honor. I never met Carolyn or his kids but he always spoke so fondly and lovingly of them, and he always sent a picture of Carolyn when he mailed me a letter or book. His devotion is unparalleled. It was a “short cruise” for our friendship, my friend. - Rest easy, and fair winds and following seas. M OBrien. Auburn, AL.
    02/11/2026 05:19 pm
    Victor The Bartender lit a candle and writes,
    I know my friend Dr Giles Is enjoying his favorite cocktail Moscow Mule (with NO! mint) In heaven. Rest In Peace Doctor. Victor The Bartender
    02/12/2026 06:00 pm
    Courtney Strobeck writes,
    A smile that lit up every single room. A gentleman and a gem. Rest in peace, Howdy.
    02/13/2026 10:55 am
    Jeanette B Harbin writes,
    Memories, too many to recount. Carolyn and Howdy, the perfect hosts at Bay Hill for Arnie's Tournament. My husband and I were so fortunate to enjoy these years together. To Robin, Julie and their families my heartfelt sympathy. Jeanette Harbin Augusta,Ga
    02/13/2026 05:29 pm
    Susan Brook writes,
    Howdy was our beloved 3-generation family dentist from 1975 until his retirement. In 2001, after a difficult bone-marrow treatment when my gums turned black, Howdy’s advice saved my teeth! He always had a funny story and a kind smile for everyone. We’ll miss him, but know he’s in a wonderful place with loved ones, playing golf!
    02/14/2026 07:04 pm
    Bill McGuinness writes,
    It was impossible to be in Howdy‘s presence and not have a big smile break out on your face. To me that was Howdy‘s greatest gift to the world. I was honored to be his friend and to know him. I’ll miss him very much. Make certain the greens are smooth and fast.
    02/15/2026 12:23 pm
    Edward Thompson lit a candle and writes,
    Dr. Giles was the best dentist ever. On top of that, he was one of the best humans I have ever had the pleasure to have known. He will truly be missed. I could go on but rest in peace in golf heaven...........................
    02/15/2026 03:36 pm
    Jeff Darnall writes,
    My goodness, such wonderful memories, since Masters week 1973..Howdy was always my role model in terms of his amazing smile and warm disposition, his ability to connect on a very personal level with everyone, and an awesome inclination to literally never seem to forget a name or a face..At the Masters, he was without question the Commander-in-Chief of Arnie's Army since probably the late 60s-and would always happily introduce all new members of the Army to all the stalwarts..Howdy will forever be linked to the total love of his life, Carolyn-and they are certainly now reunited again!..She was as wonderful as he was, and I always felt that they were the sweetest couple on earth!..Heaven is now a much brighter place than ever, for sure..May God impart His rich blessings during this difficult time to Robin, Julie, and the entire family..Love, Jeff and Beth
    02/15/2026 07:37 pm
    Doug Johnston lit a candle and writes,
    Howdy Giles has been a wonderful and special friend. It all started when he became our dentist in 1979. He was always very professional and passionate about life. His close friendship with Arnold Palmer was unique. I always enjoyed getting many of Howdy’s “The King & I” books and sharing them with my friends who had met and admired Howdy. He participated in our annual ARC of Delaware charity golf tournament for over 30 years and he always provided Arnie memorabilia to generate revenue for our charity. I especially treasure the many times Howdy invited us to BayHill for golf, including spending quality time with Arnie! And I always admired his frequent passionate comments about his “sweetheart”, his wife Carolyn. Howdy, we love you and miss you. God Bless!
    02/16/2026 05:28 pm
    Suzanne Rocheleau lit a candle and writes,
    Robin and Julie and family I am so saddened for the loss of your wonderful father. I have so many fond memories of your mom and dad over the years and their smiles were contagious. I am so happy that your dad made such a lasting impression of himself and his time in Wilmington, Delaware and his stories will always be legendary. There will only be one “Howdy” I wish you, my sincere sympathies and prayers. 🙏😇❤️
    02/18/2026 11:21 am
    Sue Thompson writes,
    Dr. Giles was my (and my husband's) dentist for 20 years. My husband did the website for "The King and I" when it was released. What a lovely man. His obituary reads as a truly wonderful life.
    02/19/2026 11:25 am
    Jamie Slonis writes,
    Howdy will be dearly missed by all who were blessed to have known him. He certainly was one of a kind. I never saw him without that infectious smile of his and a kind word for everyone he met. My thoughts and prayers to his family and friends. The world needs more Howdy’s!
    02/20/2026 05:36 pm
    Cathy Matthews writes,
    I’m so sorry for your loss. Howdy was a wonderful man. I loved his stories and his passion for Delaware and Golf. I will miss seeing him at Blue Hen Touchdown luncheons. I will miss his smiling face at games and I will miss hearing stories about life. RIP my friend and say hi to Carolyn.
    02/21/2026 01:59 pm
    Bill Booth writes,
    So sorry to hear about Howdy's passing. He was a Great guy and has so many friends all over the country. May he rest in peace surrounded by all his friends
    02/22/2026 12:27 pm
    Norm Hollander lit a candle and writes,
    Very sad to read about Howdy's passing. He was a very lovely and caring person who was always ready to help others. Lord rest his soul
    02/25/2026 07:19 pm
    Dave Waldmann writes,
    Our deepest condolences to Robin, Julie, and your family. Dr. Giles lived a life that every day honored his family, his friends, his profession, and the game of golf. Everyone who met Dr.Giles was better off for the time spent with him. Oh the party that must be going on in Heaven right now!
    03/05/2026 11:26 am
    Charlie Rountree writes,
    To the family of Howdy I spent 20 plus years on the US Junior Amateur Committee all while under the tutelage of Howdy. He was very special to me and welcome me with open arms to the fellowship of our committee. No greater gentleman has ever crossed my path. Rest in peace Charlie Rountree
    03/07/2026 06:42 pm
    Allen Richardson writes,
    I was on the USGA Junior Committee with Howdy for over 20 years. We did a lot of things together. We played golf, enjoyed socializing, and spent time discussing the rules of golf. His wife Carolyn and my wife Mary Ann were good friends as well. Howdy was a good man and everyone’s friend. Rest in Peace my friend!!
    03/09/2026 09:45 pm
    Stephanie Cook writes,
    Howdy was so amazing to me and my family. I am so sad. I did not know about the service or we would’ve attended. My son James is so grateful for the memories he gave us at the API tournament. He was one of a kind ❤️
    03/15/2026 01:37 pm

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