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Frederick John Carspecken

Frederick John Carspecken, founder of Delaware’s preeminent art gallery, Carspecken-Scott, died suddenly in his home after a long illness on October 14, 2018.

He was born on September 29, 1946, in St. Louis, Missouri to Harold Hutson Carspecken and Charlotte Elizabeth, his artist mother. He often recounted fond memories of his parents taking him to art museums while he was growing up in St. Louis, which he credited with inspiring an early interest in art. He graduated from the University of Virginia, where he was President of St. Elmo Fraternity. Fred trained during the Vietnam War to become a pilot in the U.S. Navy, hoping to search for Russian submarines in the Gulf of Mexico. Following his discharge in Pensacola, Florida, he found his way into the gallery business by chance. An acquaintance who owned a gallery was searching for someone to manage it, and Fred volunteered. After several successful months of gaining gallery expertise, he was contacted by fraternity brother, John Schoonover, grandson of noted Brandywine artist, Frank Schoonover. John suggested they start a gallery together in Wilmington. Not attracted to larger cities like New York or Philadelphia, Fred thought that Wilmington would be an ideal location for a gallery and agreed to join Schoonover in founding Schoonover Galleries in 1970.

Fred developed a strong love for contemporary art and began planning a transition to create his own gallery that would focus on contemporary artists and their works. During this time, he discovered Delaware artist, Mary Page Evans. Mesmerized by her work, Fred finalized his decision to open his own gallery. He founded Carspecken-Scott Gallery in 1973 and immediately launched into his passion for contemporary works. His first exhibition featured pieces by Evans, Tania Boucher and Tom Bostelle. It was a major success and initiated a relationship with Evans that flourished throughout his career. Evans credits Carspecken for his role in bringing recognition to her work which established her as one of Delaware’s most prominent artists. Fred was also central to advancing the works of other well-known Delaware artists, including Cleveland Morris, former director of the Delaware Theater Company, Peter Sculthorpe, Carolyn Anderson and Carol Spiker among a host of others.

Fred gained a reputation for his ability to adjust to the art interests and tastes of the Wilmington community. His exhibitions were major community events. In 1987, he co-chaired the first, and very successful, AIDS benefit.

In the 1980s, he expanded his focus from selling art to marketing his artists to Delaware’s professional community. Banks, real estate companies and law firms became major clients. To this day Carspecken-Scott Gallery is noted for its presentation of regional and local artists featuring a variety of styles but not straying far from Fred’s passion for contemporary works. He often joked that his vision was to be the Guggenheim of Delaware. Some would argue he actually succeeded. His gallery was endorsed by Delaware Today and named “Best Gallery” in the magazine’s Best of Delaware series. He formed a wonderful staff who will continue to carry on the excellent work of his gallery.

While Carspecken is perhaps best known for his prominence in Delaware’s art community, his legions of friends also knew him as an exceptional chef and host. During the 80s, an invitation to a Carspecken Sunday brunch was a much-valued ticket to what many believed was also among Delaware’s Best.

Fred was also known for his clever and self-deprecating charm and wicked sense of humor. Typical of his stories was the time, after becoming lost, he landed his Navy fighter plane at a small commercial airport by mistake. Many hosts desiring to have a successful dinner party made certain that he was on the guest list.

Fred was keen in the business of art and restoration, a loyal friend, and a devoted church member. His absence leaves a huge gap in Delaware’s art scene but an even greater hurt in the hearts of his many friends, colleagues and church family. He was generous to a fault; his friends, his staff, and his church were enormously important to him.

Fred was a long-time and dedicated member of Westminster Presbyterian Church. He attended worship faithfully always sitting in the pew closest to the pulpit. He served the congregation in many ways as an ordained elder, ordained deacon, a Biblical Storyteller, and a Stephen Minister. He claimed that the two Westminster spiritual pilgrimages to Israel and Palestine led by his pastor, had a profound impact on his life.

Fred is survived by a brother, Dr. Harold Hutson Carspecken Jr. of Atlanta, Georgia, his wife Peggy, nephew, Harold Hutson Carspecken III, Hugh Logan Carspecken and their families. He was preceded in death by his sister, Elizabeth May Carspecken. His family wishes to thank his doctors, and the nurses and staff at ManorCare and Kentmere Rehabilitation Center for their exceptional care during his illness.

Contributions in lieu of flowers may be made to Westminster Presbyterian Church.

Funeral Services

A Memorial service will be held on November 2 at 2:00 p.m. at Westminster Presbyterian Church, 1502 W. 13th Street in Wilmington, with a reception to follow.

Condolences

    Bob Tarring lit a candle and writes,
    A valued friend and pledge and fraternity brother. We were locked in a bathroom together during hell week in bulap suits. An adventure we shared whenever together. We will miss you. RIP
    10/17/2018 08:57 pm
    Gerry Tuten lit a candle and writes,
    Fred was a cheerful, fun, robust, wise and generous being. I am grateful to have come in contact with him. He provided many opportunities for my art and me. He will be missed by many.
    10/18/2018 08:46 pm
    Zeke Brown lit a candle and writes,
    Having known a small part of Fred over the past 20? years, I will miss his friendliness and generosity dearly. May his memory be for a blessing to us all. My condolences to the family both "blood" and staff at the gallery.
    10/18/2018 09:26 pm
    David Deibel writes,
    We have lost one great guy in Fred Carspecken. Fred was a classmate of mine in high school, Saint Louis Country Day. What a fantastic, warm and friendly personalality Fred had. Fred richly influenced my life. So sorry to hear this news. I’ll see you on the other side, brother.
    10/19/2018 01:48 pm
    Genny Esayian lit a candle and writes,
    Thank you Fred for your support years ago for helping Opera Delaware launch its original to Delaware fundraiser, the Designer Showcase. We needed you and you responded. God bless.
    10/20/2018 02:19 pm
    Mercedes Carbonell lit a candle and writes,
    There are people who come into your childhood life, people who offer a sudden magic ~ a laughter and verve you need at just that very moment. Fred was that magic for me. He was unexpected, irreverent in the most playful ways, loyal in a manner I did not understand at that time in my life. I worked for him at his Gallery one summer in high school and learned some of the gifts of his trade. At that time, AIDS was emerging, an unexpected and often taboo trauma to certain communities. In his Gallery, we spoke of it, wondered about it. His AIDS Benefit was an early recognition of what the Arts could offer for raising awareness and for healing a larger world. My parents raised us to value the Arts, to believe that a life in the Arts was a life of giving, of creating, of discovering, of enhancing community. I loved watching my parents interact with Fred. I hope those who carry on with the Arts in the community will do so in a way that honors his memory. I feel grateful to have known him even so briefly ~
    10/21/2018 07:41 pm
    Vincent Necastro writes,
    My Heart sank as I heard Of Fred's passing. I have been going to his Gallery for at least 20 years and always loved to talk with Fred and his Staff. I am so hurt to hear. I wish his Family and Staff my Deepest sympathy. He will Greatly be missed.My Prayers go out to All that knew and loved Fred Vinny
    10/25/2018 05:54 pm
    Ann Mulvena lit a candle and writes,
    I met Fred many years ago when my husband, Jack Mulvena was director at the parking authority and Fred was a Board member. His presence and humor were always a wonderful addition to the many conferences. We were both in PT rehab a year ago. Once again he was a blessed addition to my stay there. What a loss his passing is to all who know and love him. Blessings and condolences to his family and loved ones, Ann Mulvena
    10/25/2018 08:10 pm
    Minna C Duchovnay lit a candle and writes,
    I first met Fred in 1975 when I began my career at ICI Americas, forerunner of Akzo Nobel in North Fairfax. He helped me so many times with art work selection at ICI. I bought two of Mary Page's paintings. He had a knack for turning business relationships into friendships. I remember his housesitting for a member of the Dupont family. Several of his friends would get together and we would have wonderful meals. I am indeed grieved to hear that he has departed this earth. I hope he's making his mark in his new residence.
    10/25/2018 09:55 pm
    Julia Strahle-Tatum lit a candle and writes,
    I have known Fred since grade school at Vogt in Ferduson MO. Our teacher (6th grade) challenged the class to write a play about Little Red Riding Hood in spanish. She chose my version. I was Little Red Riding Hood and Fred was the big bad wolf. I had used an Easter basket for my prop and put a red checked napkin over it. I, however, did not remove the Easter grass. When I tossed it in the air after being scared by the big bad wolf...the basket landed squarely on Fred's head with the grass dangling around his face. Fred had a birthday party at his house and I remember all of us children sitting around a huge long table and being served spaghetti and meatballs. Fred was surprised I remembered the menu. He said they always got to choose their favorite meal on birthdays. He was always fun to be with, even as a child. He had a great since of humor and was always making us laugh. I once was working on a temporary job in San Francisco mailing out Pacific Gas and Electric stock certificates. I happened to get the ones going to Fred's brother, Hutsie. I stuck a note in the envelope "Say Hi to Fred for me!" We had lost touch by then and I didn't know how to find him. A friend of mine Nancy Lynch Little happened to forward a copy of his mother's obituary to me. This allowed me to find him at this gallery in Delaware. We met for a nice lunch and have stayed in touch for many years through social media and the occasional phone call. He will always hold a very special place in my heart. Goodbye dear friend!
    10/26/2018 11:05 am
    L. Thomas Underhill Jr. writes,
    My condolences to the Carspecken family.
    10/26/2018 06:32 pm
    Philip Detjens lit a candle and writes,
    Fred was a wonderful guy.Very loquacious. Very friendly. Very funny. My late wife, Susan, showed at his Gallery and they were very good buddies.She greatly appreciated his guidance and perspective and friendship . He will certainly be missed by us all. Philip Detjens
    10/27/2018 12:38 pm
    Maureen Minn Tucker writes,
    My sister, Laurel, worked for Fred Carspecken for many years, and during that time, she and I performed in musical "cabarets" and political satires at the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship of Newark. Fred never failed to be in the audience, and was always exuberantly supportive of our artistic and comedic endeavors. I appreciated Fred...a lot. "Minnie and Maxie La Torch" will miss him.
    10/29/2018 12:11 pm
    Denise Easton lit a candle and writes,
    Fred was the very first friend I made when I moved to Wilmington and I was truly blessed to become his friend. Fred created a masterpiece in the gallery; he was an artist of life and love, capturing all that we know but often cannot express. I loved his stories and hugs and his willingness to listen but never judge -- he was gentle and strong, he was knowing and kind and most importantly he was always loving and supportive. There is a hole in my heart, in the heart of all the people who loved Fred, and it cannot be filled, but I know that it is the part of me that will be with Fred forever.
    10/29/2018 01:04 pm
    Leslie Cook writes,
    Fred influenced my interest in paintings, especially the work of Wilmington artists, whose work was exhibited at his gallery. He was always friendly and hospitable, and he was funny. I often found an excuse to visit his gallery, mostly just to talk and enjoy his perspective on the art works he showcased. His gallery opening night events were fun and joined together people who knew him and loved his unique personal style.
    10/13/2021 11:12 am

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