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Elisabeth “Elisa” Stroud Poole

Elisabeth “Elisa” Stroud Poole, 78, daughter of Eleanor B. Stroud and Dr. Henry H. Stroud of Wilmington, Delaware, died March 28, 2020, in Greenville.

Elisa was a 1959 graduate of Wilmington Friends School and received a B.A. in political science in 1963 from Wellesley College in Massachusetts. During high school, Elisa spent a summer in Japan with the first class of American Field Service students to travel to the country after World War II. She maintained contact with her Japanese family for almost 50 years.

Throughout her life, Elisa donated her time and considerable talents to her family, friends, and community, making an indelible mark on the state of Delaware and the people who knew her. Elisa was instrumental in creating Leadership Delaware, Read Aloud Delaware, and the Fund for Women at the Delaware Community Foundation. A gifted and dedicated leader, Elisa served as a 20-year director and board secretary of WHYY; first chair of the Delaware Community Foundation; first female chair of the board of United Way of Delaware; board president of Planned Parenthood of Delaware and later a member of its Public Affairs Committee; president of the Visiting Nurses Association; and first female chair of the board of the Greenville Country Club. While President of the Junior League of Wilmington, Elisa successfully advocated for the establishment of Delaware’s Foster Care Review Board. Elisa’s service and accomplishments were celebrated with numerous awards, including the ACLU of Delaware’s Kandler Award, its highest honor. Elisa was honored for volunteerism by the Alexis de Tocqueville Society, and for her leadership in interfaith initiatives with the Community Builder Award from the Delaware Chapter of the National Conference of Christians and Jews.

Elisa served as the executive director of the Salvation Army’s Wee Care Day Care Center.

A lifelong art lover and collector, Elisa and her husband, Richard E. Poole, opened Aerie Art Gallery — first in Wilmington and then in Rehoboth Beach — in 2000.

Elisa is survived by her children, Tina Poole Johnson (Nick), Kirsten Poole (Scott), and Edward Poole; eight beloved grandchildren, Hunter, Emmy, Eleanor, Zoe, Max, Jenny, Henry, and Rose; and her sister, Eileen Clark (Martin). Elisa’s high-school sweetheart and husband of 51 years, Richard, predeceased her in 2015.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Fund for Women at the Delaware Community Foundation, WHYY, or Planned Parenthood of Delaware.

Funeral Services

Elisa was buried at Lower Brandywine Presbyterian Church on April 2, 2020. Elisa’s life will be celebrated at a memorial service later in the year.

In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to the Fund for Women at the Delaware Community Foundation, WHYY, or Planned Parenthood of Delaware.

Condolences

    Nicole Spence lit a candle and writes,
    My sincere condolences to the Poole family.
    04/04/2020 03:38 pm
    Murun Enkhtaivan lit a candle
    04/04/2020 08:37 pm
    Mary Ball Morton
    04/04/2020 09:20 pm
    Loeun Lee khun writes,
    To Tina and Nick and the Poole family: Please accept my deepest and heartfelt condolences.🙏🙏🙏
    04/04/2020 10:14 pm
    Lisa Mensah lit a candle and writes,
    Many condolences and Special prayers for you Tina and your family. Your mother’s clear passion for change is so evident in you. May this time of grief also be a time of memories and gratitude, and with time may you find peace and healing.
    04/05/2020 04:52 pm
    Ben Beswick lit a candle and writes,
    Lovely Elisa, Rest in Peace lovely lady, and join Richard. Rest assured you have left behind a wonderful legacy. Love Ben xx
    04/05/2020 07:10 pm
    Patty Edgell Soffronoff writes,
    Please accept my condolences in your time of loss. I lived near the Strouds and went to Hanover Church with Elisa and Eileen when we were children. I had not seen Elisa until a few years ago when my husband and I met her and Richard at their art gallery in Rehoboth. A brief meeting but brought back many memories of our youth in Wilmington. We shared a love for Japan as my family had an AFS student from Japan live with us a year after Elisa returned. May she rest in peace.
    04/06/2020 09:53 am
    David Mandelbaum lit a candle and writes,
    A finer contributor to her community, a finer spouse and mother and most importantly a finer human being I’ve never known. My heart breaks at her passing
    04/06/2020 10:36 am
    Mary Hickok lit a candle and writes,
    Elisa and Richard were very welcoming when we moved to Wilmington in 1977. Elisa took me under her wing and my activities in the community began. The Jr. League, Fund for Women, Foster Care Review Board and on and on. My gratitude to Elisa cannot be measured. Bob and I send our condolences to everyone in the family. May your memories surround you during this dark time.
    04/06/2020 11:27 am
    Ellen Nissenbaum lit a candle and writes,
    Tina, I am so sorry for the loss for you and your family. Your mother sounds like a wonderful, warm and highly accomplished woman. Explains a lot about you. Sending you hugs and hopes that memories of wonderful times with your mom help bring your comfort. Ellen
    04/07/2020 02:14 am
    Ted Dwyer writes,
    I am so sad to hear of Elisa's passing. She was a remarkable women and her volunteer work has meant so much to so many in Delaware over the years. My condolences to Elisa's family.
    04/07/2020 03:37 pm
    Marilyn Forney writes,
    A wonderful, compassionate, talented human being. She will be missed by the whole community.
    04/08/2020 10:01 am
    Katherine Klocko writes,
    Tina, Kirsten and Edward, I was so sadden when I read that your Mom had passed. She was a beautiful, intelligent and lovely woman. I so enjoyed being involved with your weddings and getting to know her. We always chatted when we saw each other - she was interested in me and I in her. I just lost m brother so I know how hard it is for you at this time. Please accept my sincere sympathy. Peace, Cathy Klocko
    04/08/2020 12:02 pm
    Pat Fisher writes,
    To the family: I remember Elisa so fondly. When we bought our house on Stockley Street in 1988, she and your Dad were so welcoming and kind. As is often the case in Delaware, we discovered that Ed and Cathy were at Governor's School at UD at the same time! Over the ensuing years, I would see her from time to time. She truly was a remarkable woman and you were most fortunate to have such outstanding parents. Please accept my deepest sympathy on her passing. Pat Fisher
    04/08/2020 07:20 pm
    Pamela Christian Waller writes,
    I’m so sorry to hear if Elisa’s passing. She hired me to work at the Salvation Army in 1974. She and I shared the same birthday, December 4th. She will sincerely be missed. May she Rest In Peace
    04/10/2020 10:29 am

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