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Daniel J. Graham

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of Daniel J. Graham, a beloved husband, father, and grandfather, who passed away peacefully at home on May 11, 2026, at the age of 80. Dan carried the warmth of Irish hospitality, a love for storytelling and a good joke wherever he went. He was the anchor of our family, whose quiet strength and devotion to his wife Ann and his children never wavered.

Dan was born in Rasharkin, Northern Ireland and earned his Electrical Engineering degree at Queen’s University in Belfast, NI. After marrying Ann, he accepted a position with General Electric and they moved to the Philadelphia, PA area. He then completed his Master’s Degree in Computer Science at the University of Pennsylvania. After moving to Southern New Jersey, Dan worked for Computest, Siemens, and then cofounded InTest where he became a Director and Senior Vice President. Over the years, Dan held several patents for his innovative ideas in technology and won numerous awards. Among his many achievements, Dan served for decades in advisory and organizing capacities for various IEEE technical communities, including ITC. Dan also was an advisor for Drexel University’s Engineering Department and approved and awarded many scholarships to engineering students.

Dan was a car enthusiast who never missed an F1 Race, Sunday drives, exploring new restaurants, and a good glass of whisky. He looked forward to his weekly lunch with friends, his yearly pilgrimage to Florida with Ann, and a beautiful view. He mostly loved spending time reminiscing with family and friends. Last year, Dan and Ann moved to Chester County, PA to be closer to their family. His advice was sought by many and his presence was a source of comfort to all who knew him.

Dan was preceded in death by his parents, John and Annie Graham, and his sister, Eileen.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 57 years, Ann; his children, Danelle, Eileen (Tom), Siobhan (James), and Elizabeth Ann (Radacal) and his grandchildren, Robert, Sean, Ashleigh, Elijah, James “Jake”, and Daniel, who were the true lights of his life. He also leaves behind 7 siblings (Lily, Joan, John, Joyce, Pearl, Mavis, and Brian), nieces, nephews, and an extended family in Northern Ireland and Scotland.

Funeral Services

Friends and family are invited to attend a visitation from 9:30 to 11:30 AM, followed by a service at 11:30 AM, on Friday, May 15, 2026, at Chandler Funeral Home, 7230 Lancaster Pike, Hockessin, DE 19707.

Interment will follow the service at St. Patrick’s Cemetery, 1516 Ashland Clinton School Rd, Hockessin, DE 19707.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to either the American Heart Association (Why Give | American Heart Association) or the American Cancer Society for Prostate Cancer Research (Donate Today | The American Cancer Society).

Condolences

    Kellie Champion-Pellecchia lit a candle and writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss- sending our deepest condolences
    05/13/2026 09:50 am
    Roberta McAleese lit a candle and writes,
    Condolences to Ann and all the family at this sad time. Danny was a lovely gentleman; may he rest in peace 🙏🙏
    05/13/2026 10:25 am
    Kevin E. Ecker lit a candle and writes,
    Ann and Family, So sorry to hear of Dan's passing. My memories of you all included my good friend, Peggy, who to this day miss so much. May your memories that you cherish keep you warm with the loving care you feel from you family and friends. Love to you all, and God's grace give you comfort and peace. Love, Kevin
    05/13/2026 10:42 am
    Joyce Durnan lit a candle and writes,
    Danny was an amazing husband, father & grandfather & also a wonderful brother to me & my siblings, he was loved very much & will be sorely missed but will always be in our hearts, till we meet again Danny ❤️
    05/13/2026 10:54 am
    Georgene and Tony Brown writes,
    We are so sorry to hear of Danny’s passing. He was a wonderful husband, father and friend to many. He will always be remembered fondly. Keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.
    05/13/2026 11:12 am
    Pergine Family lit a candle and writes,
    Dan was a true Irish gentleman and had a remarkable life, meaningful to so many. Sending comforting hugs to all of you. I hope your happy memories help you through this.
    05/13/2026 11:12 am
    Noel and Margaret Pinkerton lit a candle and writes,
    Ann and family Our deepest condolences to you and the family. He was an incredible man and will be surely missed by us and our family. Noel, Margaret and Family.
    05/13/2026 12:43 pm
    hugh sweeney lit a candle and writes,
    sorry for your loss ann and family
    05/13/2026 01:02 pm
    Don and Denise Autio lit a candle and writes,
    We are saddened about your loss. Dan was such a kind and loving person who always had a smile for everyone. May he rest in peace in Gods hands.🙏🏻❤️
    05/13/2026 01:30 pm
    Sabine Gerth lit a candle and writes,
    My heartfelt condolences to Ann and the entire family! Dan was a wonderful, warm-hearted boss—someone to be proud of! I will miss him.
    05/13/2026 02:57 pm
    Samuel Lim AS writes,
    Dan was a very capable and understanding colleague of mine. We had worked together in Singapore and NJ office. Praying for peace and comfort for all of Dan's family members. Dan, you are in good hands of the Lord, our Holy Father God. In Jesus' name, Amen Shalom peace...
    05/14/2026 07:32 am
    Joe Chua writes,
    I would like to extend my deepest condolences to the family. May you find strength, comfort, and peace in the days ahead.
    05/14/2026 09:50 am
    Leah writes,
    Missing you terribly Danny deepest condolences to the family
    05/14/2026 10:41 am
    Brahma Reddy lit a candle and writes,
    We are very sorry for your loss, Siobhan. Sending our deepest condolences to you and all the family at this sad time. After learning about Dan, for sure he was a lovely gentleman. May he rest in peace.
    05/14/2026 10:46 am
    aylmer loughlin lit a candle and writes,
    Sorry for your loss ann and family. Rip danny.
    05/14/2026 12:00 pm
    Melvyn Mitchell lit a candle and writes,
    Deepest condolences to Ann and Family. Danny was an absolute gentleman who I have fond memories of growing up. May he rest in peace ❤️
    05/14/2026 05:00 pm
    Schreppler Family writes,
    We are thinking of the entire family today. Sending many prayers.
    05/15/2026 06:16 am
    John McMullan and family lit a candle and writes,
    Very sorry to hear of Danny’s passing. Danny and I have been friends throughout our lives; neighbours, school, college and exchange of Christmas greetings including 2025, always with his exquisite hand writing! Sincere condolences to Ann and family, and also to the wider Graham family. May he rest in peace.
    05/15/2026 06:30 am
    Michael McGrath writes,
    I'm very sorry for your loss, Siobhan. Sending warm thoughts and condolences to you and all the family at this sad time. I pray that you all can treasure such fond memories.
    05/15/2026 12:02 pm
    Rose Wilson writes,
    Ann and family, I am praying for your strength to get thru these difficult days. I will never forget Dan…it was around 2018 when I first met him at a family gathering. He welcomed me with a warm embrace and it seemed as if I had known him for a lifetime. Dan is now resting with the angels in heaven. He will be sorely missed.
    05/15/2026 12:34 pm
    Trevor Pinkerton writes,
    So sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences to you and your family. Sorry Aunt Anne for your loss! Sending hugs! RIP Uncle Danny
    05/16/2026 01:30 pm

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