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Carol G. Illingworth

Carol Gibson Illingworth, 80, of Wilmington, Delaware, passed away peacefully at home on June 29, 2026, surrounded by her loving family.

Born in 1946, at the old Delaware Hospital in Wilmington, Carol was the daughter of William “Hoot” Gibson and Ann Roberts Gibson. A proud Wilmington native, Carol carried deep love for her family, her city, and the lifelong friendships and community connections that shaped her life.

Carol was predeceased by her beloved husband and best friend, Don Illingworth, in 2015, and by her brother Bill Gibson in 2016.

She is survived by her devoted son Matthew and his wife Ava; her stepdaughter Lin Illingworth and Lin’s husband Bill Maddocks; and her stepson Mark Illingworth. She was an adoring and deeply loved Mimi to her grandson Lincoln, who brought enormous joy to her life.

Carol is also survived by her brother Steve Gibson; her sister and brother-in-law Jayne and George Robinson; her sister Debbie Galloway; and many beloved nieces, nephews, extended family members, and dear friends whose lives were made better by her kindness, steadiness, humor, and generous heart.

Throughout her life, Carol was known for her quiet strength, deep loyalty, and remarkable ability to care for others. Whether through her professional work, her volunteer service with the VA and Ronald McDonald House, her treasured friendships, or the love she poured into her family, Carol made people feel welcomed, supported, and truly seen.

A Celebration of Life will be held at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, DE 19803 on Wednesday, July 1, 2026 at 12:00 p.m. A Visitation will be held prior to the service from 11 to 12.

In accordance with Carol’s wishes, her ashes will be scattered alongside Don’s in the Chesapeake Bay, where the two of them spent many happy years boating, laughing, and building a life together — and also at the bus stop where they first met.

Funeral Services

A Celebration of Life will be held at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, DE 19803 on Wednesday, July 1, 2026 at 12:00 p.m. A Visitation will be held prior to the service from 11 to 12.

Condolences

    Joe Patterson lit a candle and writes,
    Carol was a very kind and generous person with a beautiful heart, will be missed greatly . rest in peace Carol love cousin Joe
    06/30/2026 11:36 am
    Sierra & Chas lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Lin & Family ~ we are holding you in gentle peace as you go through the next few days and continue life without your sweet *Bonus Mom*. May she rest in eternal peace. Much love, Sierra & Chas
    06/30/2026 01:42 pm
    Clare Dunning writes,
    Carol was a close personal friend since we met at Hercules just after high school. Some of my happiest memories involve our Girls Night Out dinner group, walking across the Brooklyn Bridge, the Mermaid Parade, and Bellevue Park concerts although we had many serious moments also including deep conversations, lectures, classes and outings with our spouses. Carol was a special friend, intelligent, generous, compassionate, fun, easy to be with, and full of common sense. Heartfelt condolences go out to her family and friends. I know Carol loved all of you deeply. “God gave you a fingerprint that no one else has, so you can leave an imprint no one else can”. Rest in peace, my dear friend ♥️
    06/30/2026 05:24 pm
    Doug Tobin writes,
    It is with a heavy heart I just saw the obituary. I worked with Carol at Hercules and Himont. I never worked with a better colleague and I was also privileged to be able to call her a friend. Rest in Peace my friend
    07/01/2026 09:14 am
    Neal K. Hobbs writes,
    I was so sorry to see Carol's obit in this morning's paper. I was saddened to see that I would not be able to attend her funeral service. I worked with Carol many years at Hercules. She has always been a dear friend and we have kept in touch all these years through phone calls and Christmas Cards. I will truly miss Carol. My sincere condolences to all of her extended family and friends. God bless and give you all comfort in knowing what a loving and caring person she was. Sincerely, Neal Hobbs
    07/02/2026 01:34 am
    Bud Thompson lit a candle and writes,
    I'm sorry to hear of Carol passing away. I met her and Don years ago when they were purchasing a home in PA and needed advice on its' HVAC needs. I became a go to guy after that for their needs at that home and their needs in the Waycross Rd home. Carol always made me feel like a friend whenever I was there.
    07/02/2026 07:40 am
    Marcy Homan Hamm writes,
    Sorry for your family’s loss. Hope memories and love of loss love one will help health the hurt.
    07/04/2026 03:48 pm

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