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Betty T. Aldrich

Betty T. Aldrich of Wilmington DE passed away peacefully on April 16, 2026, aged 89.  She was born in 1936 to Wilfred and Bertha Traugott of Virginia. Betty was predeceased by her parents, her husband Paul, and her brother Robert. She is survived by her sister Barbara Murray, her sons Craig and Mark, daughter-in-law Julie, and by her grandson Luke.

Betty was born in Nyack, New York but moved to West Point Virginia shortly after she was born. She went to the University of Tennessee where she studied to be a dietician. After serving in various hospitals, she moved to Delaware where she met the love of her life, Paul, in 1962. They were married the following year and had two sons: Craig and Mark.

Once her sons were old enough, Betty found a new career in HR for ICI/Zeneca, retiring in 2001. After retiring, Betty served in the Altar Guild at Aldersgate United Methodist Church and volunteered for Read Aloud Delaware, a program to raise small children’s interest in reading and one which she helped manage.

When Betty was in high school in West Point VA, she became a cheerleader, which was a harbinger of who she would be. Betty was a very positive person whose passion was supporting and encouraging others. She thrived on the joy she brought to her friends, family and community, celebrating their successes and gently challenging them.

Betty was selfless and devoted to serving. This was seen as a mother, during her years in HR at ICI/Zeneca, and while volunteering at Aldersgate and Read Aloud. She spent the last 10+ years of her time on earth devoted to serving as a full-time nurse for her husband, a long-time Parkinsons patient. She looked at this not as a burden but as her mission.

Betty’s joy and encouragement will be deeply missed but will continue to be felt through those she built up and the causes she espoused.

Donations in Betty’s memory can be made to Aldersgate United Methodist Church or to Read Aloud of Delaware. Funeral services will be private.

 

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    Carolyn Fleckenstein writes,
    My condolences to her sons and grandson. She worked with me at AZ and was my shepherd at Aldersgate UMC. She will be remembered by her active participation in Aldersgate ministry to the Altar Guild and to her untiring loving care to her husband. She will always be remembered with love to those who knew her.
    04/22/2026 12:28 pm
    Mary Kay B Hawkins writes,
    Betty and Paul were some of the first people we met at Aldersgate when we moved to Delaware in 1988. They were our shepherds who introduced not only to Aldersgate but all things Wilmington. And they shepherded us through the joys and sorrows as we spent 30 years in Wilmington. We had a wonderful visit last summer for which we are truly grateful. Although we are sad, we have so many wonderful shared memories. Our hearts go out to you Craig, Mark, Julie and Luke. You were her joy.
    04/22/2026 06:51 pm
    Patricia Horne lit a candle and writes,
    Betty always brought a smile to Bush School. She had such a kind & caring heart. Wishing you the love of friends & family, strength to face each day and warm memories to hold on to.
    04/26/2026 03:25 pm
    KURT J STORR lit a candle and writes,
    HELLO, MY MOTHER CAROL J STORR KNEW BETTY FROM ALDERSGATE. SHE INTRODUCED ME TO HER YEARS AGO. I BELIEVE SHE WORKED WITH MY MOTHER, AND ME AT IMMANUEL DINING ROOM SERVING MEALS. SORRY TO HEAR OF HER PASSING. KURT
    04/26/2026 04:33 pm
    David Cress writes,
    I write on behalf of the Cress Family. My late parents, Harry and Anita Cress never had more better to say about anyone then Betty. Her work and dedication to Aldersgate was an inspiration to me, as passed down by my mother, Anita Cress. I extend my condolences to the family.
    04/27/2026 07:37 am
    Cheryl Cicamore lit a candle and writes,
    Heartfelt Condolences to Betty’s loving family. I have nice memories of Betty from working at ICI/Zeneca/AstraZeneca. She was always very kind, and had a smile for everyone. May she Rest In Peace.
    04/27/2026 09:15 pm
    Nancy Flaherty writes,
    Craig, Mark and family, I was so sad to hear of your mom’s passing. She was the sweetest, most kind woman and neighbor. Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. She will be missed!
    04/28/2026 11:15 am

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