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Ann W. Stevens

Mary Ann Watkins Stevens, beloved wife, mother, sister, friend, and community leader, passed away peacefully on August 19, 2026, at the age of 83.

Born in 1943, in Inverness, Mississippi, Ann was the daughter of Joseph Wesley Watkins, Jr. and Mary Alice Catlette. She grew up in Inverness and attended the University of Mississippi (‘Ole Miss), graduating in 1967 with a degree in Anthropology. She carried throughout her life the warmth, grace, and hospitality of her Southern upbringing, touching many lives with her kindness, generosity, and vibrant spirit.

After she graduated, she obtained a job in Brussels, Belgium and met her husband, Thomas Edward Stevens Jr., who was working in France at the time. They married in Brussels in 1969 and then returned to Tom’s hometown of Wilmington, DE. In 1971, they bought an 1860s house that became their forever home in Middletown, DE.

Ann was devoted to her family. She was predeceased by her older sister Molley Francis Watkins Lester and older brother Joseph Wesley Watkins III. She is survived by her loving husband, Tom; her cherished daughter, Mary Amanda Stevens; and her brothers, William Sherrill Wakins and Gordon Estes Watkins, sister-in-law Carol Stevens Harding, and dear nieces nephews, cousins, and friends too numerous to mention. She was a steadfast source of love, encouragement, and wisdom to those fortunate enough to know her.

A dedicated advocate for education, community service, and the arts, Ann was an active member of Philanthropic Educational Organization (PEO) and the American Association of University Women (AAUW). She was also an active member of St. Anne’s Episcopal Church and served for several years as the Senior Warden of the Vestry, where her leadership and commitment strengthened the parish community. She was also a founding board member of the Everett Theatre in Middletown, Delaware, helping to foster and preserve an important cultural and artistic asset for generations to come.

Ann’s greatest gift was her ability to make everyone feel welcomed and valued. With a vibrant personality and a generous Southern soul, she freely shared her compassion, laughter, and friendship with all who crossed her path. Whether through her volunteer work, her church service, her community involvement, or simple acts of kindness, she left an enduring mark on the lives of many.

Funeral Services

A funeral service celebrating Ann’s life will be held at 11am on September 19, 2026, at historic Old St. Ann’s Church, 105 Saint Annes Church Rd, Middletown, DE 19709. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial donations be made in Ann’s memory to either AAUW, the PEO Foundation, St. Anne’s Church or the Everett Theatre.

Ann will be deeply missed and lovingly remembered by her family, friends, and all whose lives were enriched by her remarkable warmth, generosity, and grace.

Condolences

    Pat Carlson writes,
    Ann, you were my nextdoor neighbor and friend for over 30 years. I miss you every day. We had some great times making jelly, pulling weeds and talking over the fence. My grandchildren enjoyed your pool and your generosity. We had our little Christmas traditions too. Peace and love my friend. Love, Pat.
    08/28/2026 10:55 am
    Mary B Morton writes,
    Dear Tom, John and I send our condolences to you and your family. We had not seen Ann for sometime but have great memories of former times together - with you both. With deepest sympathy, Mary Ball and John
    08/28/2026 06:47 pm
    Judy Hughes writes,
    Ann was the best! I enjoyed many Summer weekends swimming at the Steven’s pool, sitting on their porch on hot Summer evenings and enjoying fun games and storytelling with Tom, Ann, Amanda, friends and families. It truly made for an idyllic childhood. Ann had a gift of creating community. I will always remember her laugh and big smile. ♥️
    08/31/2026 12:07 pm

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