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Pauline C. McPheeters

Pauline Chenery McPheeters (nee Howes), age 92, died peacefully on December 25, 2019 at Foulk Manor North in North Wilmington, DE. Polly was born in Swampscott, MA to Paul and Florence Drake Howes.
Polly attended Oberlin College in Ohio for one year and Boston University for one year prior to entering the work force as a secretary. Polly was a member of the Junior League of Wilmington, DE. She served as President of the American Field Service (AFS) chapter at Mt. Pleasant High School, then as a regional Director of the same and was then the founding President of the chapter at Archmere Academy.
Polly was the consummate hostess and provided housing for many AFS students, seminary interns, family and friends. Her children never knew who they might find living with them when they returned home. She also enjoyed taking AFS students on family vacations so they could experience other parts of the country. Polly was also a longtime member of Westminster Presbyterian Church where she worshipped and served faithfully in many capacities.
She will be dearly missed by her three sons; Jon and his wife Susan, Paul and his wife Nancy, and Douglas and his wife Jean; and seven grandchildren; Ian, Andrew (Katherine), Sarah, Rebekah (Justin), Jana, Molly and Devyn. Polly was predeceased by her beloved husband Larry, her brother Daniel Howes and her first son, Laurance Drake, who died in infancy.
The family wishes to express their deep gratitude for the loving care that Polly received for many years at Foulk Manor North.
Funeral services will be held at Westminster Presbyterian Church in Wilmington, DE on Friday, January 10 at 2PM with a Memorial Tea immediately following. Contributions in Polly’s memory may be made to Westminster Presbyterian Church, 1502 W.13th St., Wilmington, DE 19806.
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Funeral Services

Funeral services will be held at Westminster Presbyterian Church in Wilmington, DE on Friday, January 10 at 2PM with a Memorial Tea immediately following.

Condolences

    Rob Karlewicz writes,
    With prayers for the families.
    12/29/2019 09:51 am
    Lee Eldredge writes,
    To the McPheeters sons - My sincerest sympathy to all of you on the passing of your Mother. I have such fond memories of her untiring efforts with AFS during all my years at Mount Pleasant. She always went over and above for all the foreign students. The Mount Pleasant years were a wonderful experience for me because of a great staff, good students, and most importantly, parents like yours. Lee Eldredge
    12/29/2019 11:05 am
    James williams writes,
    So saddended to hear of the recent passing of your mother, grandmother, and all friends of Pauline C. Mcpheeters May you rest in heavenly peace with Our God above. My prayers for family members,and all who came to know you
    12/31/2019 08:31 am
    Marsha and Joe Rodriguez and Family writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you and your family that you find God's peace and love in this painful time.
    12/31/2019 01:20 pm
    Chris Hickey writes,
    McPheeters family — you are all in my prayers at this time of loss.
    01/02/2020 09:25 pm
    Tim Howes writes,
    Dear John, Paul, Douglas and family, My condolences to all of you. Whenever, I met with Polly and Larry and all you guys, Polly was always so kind to me. She was I shining example of a great human being. Sincerely, Tim Howes
    01/04/2020 11:38 pm
    Gary Sokola lit a candle and writes,
    Paul, I'm so sorry for this very big loss. I pray God comforts you abundantly with the assurance of a blessed reunion to come, plus many wonderful memories.
    01/06/2020 04:54 pm
    Angie Wahlig writes,
    My deepest condolences to the McPheeters family at this difficult time. My heart goes out to you all as you process the loss of beloved, jovial, and charitable Polly.
    01/07/2020 09:33 am
    Angee Costa lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest sympathies on the passing of your Mom. I didn't know her, but she raised the most incredible son which speaks volumes about who she was. Love and prayers!
    01/09/2020 02:23 pm

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