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Norman Cross

Norman L. Cross, of Chadds Ford, 87, dearly-loved husband, step-dad, pop-pop and friend, went to be with Jesus on Wednesday, February 27, 2019.

Never a fan of obituaries that painted the departed person as “more than”, Norm’s list of accomplishments in life, though many, will not be recounted here. Instead, his life is summarized in two words, “he cared.” He cared about all the people in the plants he managed for DuPont, endearing all to him, “Norm Cross, the Legend.” He cared for folks when he was in Human Resources in Wilmington – his door always open, trusted to look out for employees’ best interests. He cared about people by opening his doors to those down on their luck, or friends needing a place to stay between homes, on furlough from the mission field, even an Indian man who came to wash windows who was living out of his car. He cared about little kids of single parents in our back yard picnics by functioning as the Pied Piper in a large red clown wig. The door to his home was as wide open as his heart was. He cared deeply for his wife, Aleta, and daughters, Lauren and Lindsey, demonstrated most recently by his brown book of instructions upon his demise, smoothing the way for our sad goodbyes. He was truly one of the saints who made it easier for others to believe in God.

In lieu of flowers and in keeping with Norm’s legacy of care, contributions to Covenant Mercies, 1 Fellowship Drive, Glen Mills, PA 19342 are appreciated.
“One day some of you will hear that I am dead. Do not believe it. I will then be alive as never before.” (Dwight Moody, evangelist)

Funeral Services

His memorial service will be private.

Condolences

    John Krakowski lit a candle and writes,
    Two C.S. Lewis quotes that hopefully add to your wonderful Norm tribute. Thoughts and Prayers... Always. Quote: "True humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less." Source: C.S. Lewis Quote: "All their life in this world and all their adventures in Narnia had only been the cover and the title page: now at last they were beginning Chapter One of the Great Story which no one on earth has read: which goes on for ever: in which every chapter is better than the one before.” Source: “The Last Battle” (1956)
    03/11/2019 09:40 pm
    Sally Pipher Allis writes,
    In my book, Mr. Cross was ranked right up there next to Billy Graham and very close to God. There was not a kinder man alive. People who knew him through duPont are very lucky (I am one of them). He always seemed like the happiest person on earth. His obituary says A LOT about him. I thank God I got to know him and hope to see him again one day.
    03/26/2019 12:14 pm

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