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Neeltje Schulte

It’s with great sadness I must announce the passing of Neeltje Schulte, age 76, of Newark, Delaware with former dwellings in Clayton, New Castle, and Baltimore, Maryland. Mrs. Schulte was widowed earlier this year during the passing of her only love and husband Christiaan Schulte. She took her last breath on October 19, 2017 at Christiana Hospital in Newark, Delaware.

Nel, as most people called her, had a very nice childhood in a loving and warm family with her sisters and brothers. The Kerkhoven’s grew up in the south of the Netherlands and were all closely involved in the activities of Salvation Army, such as Sunday school, vocal choir, and music corps. The faith in God played an important part in her life.

After high school, Nel worked and lived in a children’s home of the Salvation Army. While traveling for her work, she met Christiaan, her beloved for life. Soon after their marriage they immigrated to America and initially settled in Delaware. In 1966 Nel gave birth to her first child, Eugene Schulte, who eventually blessed her with a grandson – Dale Schulte. In 1967 Nel brought a second son into this world, Christopher Schulte.

Work opportunities took the family to Maryland were Nel raised the boys and started work in the men’s apparel business as a seamstress. In the late 80’s the boys left the nest, and Chris and Nel returned to Delaware to work. Nel took a position in alterations at the Men’s Warehouse, a career she kept until she was 72 years old.

Life had its struggles; in 2008 Nel underwent open heart surgery, in 2010 with her kidneys failing she had to go on dialysis. In 2013 she had to undergo the hardest battle yet, the passing of her first son Eugene. All was not sadness though, as later that year Nel received a kidney transplant and a new lease on life. With this transplant she decided to retire and focus on taking care of her ailing husband.

After her husband’s death, Nel moved to Churchman’s Village in Newark close to the Hospital. Her health was now catching up with her, but as many know, she kept active with her needlepoint, sewing, cross stitch and iPad. Family and friends kept up with her via Facebook, Messenger, WhatsApp, and even FaceTime.

She received regular visits from her grandson Dale and Dale’s mother Gloria. Just days before her passing, her son Chris visited from Oregon. She enjoyed her life immensely and would thank all that participated in her travels.

Funeral Services

Private service will be held.

Condolences

    Piet, Margje en Lien Kerkhoven lit a candle and writes,
    We think in love and with respect to Nel. The contacts of the last year were very fine via Face time and mail. We wish Chistopher, Sheila and Dale and Gloria much strength and God's blessings for the future. Piet, Margje and Lynn
    10/30/2017 02:52 pm
    Christine Boersma Clafferty lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest sympathy to Christopher and Nel and Chris' family in Holland and friends in Delaware. Mom and I visited Nel in May. She was optimistic that she would receive a trial treatment to improve her heart. Unfortunately, she found out later that the treatment was no longer a viable solution. My heart broker for her hearing this news. Nel was always kind to me and my family. We spent New Year's Eves and other holidays together when I was young playing games and eating fabulous food. I only have the fondest memories of Nel. May she rest in peace with Chris and Eugene. All my love, Chrissy
    10/30/2017 09:35 pm
    Stien Stoter lit a candle and writes,
    My condolences to all the family members in the U.S. as well as in The Netherlands.
    10/31/2017 02:12 am
    Marcel en Ruth Kerkhoven writes,
    Our condolences to all the family members. With kindness we'll remember Chris and Nel's visits to the Netherlands.
    11/01/2017 04:45 am
    Dorothy (Boersma) Wolff writes,
    My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to Christopher and all family far and near. Nel was a sweet and kind person, always putting others first. I have only fond memories of the good times our families spent together growiing up. May she rest in peace in Heaven with Chris and Eugene.
    11/03/2017 07:04 am
    Joke Terrando writes,
    My deepest sympathy to Nel’s family. She and Chris were part of my family since we immigrated to the US together in February 1965. Nel was a very patient, soft spoken, loving wife, mother, grandmother and friend. I had the honor of visiting her several times the week before she passed. She was happy with lifeand clowned around when we took a selfie. The needlepoint of the Netherlands she was working on was beautiful. We played Internet games and chatted every day. I will keep those and many more memories with me forever. She is missed, but she is at peace with Chris, Eugene and her family and friends in Heaven. Rust zacht lieve Nel.
    11/11/2017 03:18 am
    Joke Terrando lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest sympathy to Nel’s family and friends. She was part of our family since we all immigrated to the US in 1965 on the same ship. She was a very soft spoken, loving wife, mother, grandmother and friend. We played Internet games and chatted online daily. I miss those games with her. I feel so blessed to have been able to visit with her a few times the week before she passed. We laughed so hard that her stomach hurt when we took a silly selfie. She talked for hours about her new apartment, Dale’s new car and Christopher’s visit. It was such a joy to see her working on her new cross stitch of the Dutch map. I will treasure the memory of that week with Nel. Rest In Peace, Nel, with Chris, Eugene, family and friends. Rust zacht lieve Nel.
    11/11/2017 03:35 am
    Anneke en Gerard Henzen lit a candle and writes,
    Het was voor ons een grootte schok om te horen dat het niet goed was gegaan. Al die jaren dat wij bij jullie op vakantie kwamen in de maand september. Was het altijd gezellig veel uitstapjes onder nomen en al die verhuizingen meegemaakt. Nogmaals heel veel dank voor alles en wij zullen altijd aan jullie denken
    11/11/2017 08:32 am

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