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Joyce Longworth

Joyce Longworth died peacefully at home on November 6th with family at her side, just over a month after celebrating her 90th birthday. Joyce will be remembered as a generous and compassionate wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend.

Joyce was born in Beirut, Lebanon to the late Francis Kettaneh and Mary Kettaneh (Shoucair). She arrived in the U.S. in 1941, four days before the attack on Pearl Harbor. She attended the Spence School in New York City, and earned her B.A. in English Literature from Bryn Mawr College in 1956. During her childhood and throughout her life, the happiness and well-being of her siblings Tony, Lorna and Eddie were of paramount importance to her. After school, she worked in information services at the United Nations.

She met her future husband Ruskin at a party in New York City, and after a transatlantic romance, they married in 1957 and settled in Wilmington, Delaware. While raising her four daughters, Joyce served as a Girl Scout leader and wrote book reviews for the Wilmington Morning Journal. She worked on the education committee of the Greater Wilmington Development Council, which was responsible for locating Delaware Technical Community College in downtown Wilmington.

In 1971, after volunteering at Winterthur Museum, Joyce became a staff and teaching guide until her retirement in 2019. She specialized in Empire furniture and Chinese export porcelain, and was a Member of the American Ceramic Circle, the Northern Ceramic Society (England), and the Wedgwood Society. Joyce was the principal author of a book on the history of St. Joseph on the Brandywine church in Greenville, Delaware, and sang in the church’s choir for several decades.

Joyce was cherished for her hospitality, welcoming family and friends from near and far to her homes in Wilmington and Chatham, Cape Cod. Her annual Christmas parties gathered neighbors for caroling and her famous hot chocolate. She loved traveling the world with her husband and daughters, exploring museums and cultural sites, collecting ceramics and other decorative art objects for which she had a lifelong passion.Joyce is survived by her sister Lorna Kettaneh, her daughters and sons-in-law Monica Longworth and Michael Coyne, Kim Longworth, Jennifer Longworth and Matt Meyer, and Alys Longworth and Jon Hope, as well as six grandchildren, Aidan and Glynis Coyne, Alexander and Jacqueline Wallis, and Aubrey and Noel Meyer.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at Saint Joseph on the Brandywine, 10 Old Church Road, Greenville, DE, 19807 on Friday, November 14, 2025 at 10:00 am. Interment will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Joyce’s honor to the World Food Program’s food relief for Lebanon campaign at www.wfpusa.org/countries/lebanon/.

Funeral Services

A Mass of Christian Burial will be offered at Saint Joseph on the Brandywine, 10 Old Church Road, Greenville, DE, 19807 on Friday, November 14, 2025 at 10:00 am. Interment will be private.

Condolences

    Mary and Brian Carty writes,
    Our deepest condolences to her four beautiful daughters - Monica, kim, Alice and Jen and to her sister Lorna and all her family. We will remember Joyce for her kindness and for the joy she brought to all who knew her. She was a uniquely special person who accepted people for who they were. She's safely home with the Angels and reunited once again with Ruskin. Rest in peace dear Joyce. ❤️ We will miss you.
    11/09/2025 05:32 pm
    Janet Allen writes,
    My condolences to the family.
    11/10/2025 11:27 am
    Jacqueline Edison writes,
    Joyce and I worked together at Winterthur for many years. She was a talented guide and shared her knowledge with so many visitors, grad students and other guides. We belonged to the American Ceramic Circle and enjoyed attending their conferences in many areas of the United States. Jennifer, you and I attended the Attingham Summer School program in 1994. I am so sorry for your loss. My sympathy to all of your family. Jackie Edison
    11/10/2025 01:37 pm
    Susan St.John lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences on the loss of the wonderful person that Joyce, your mother, was. She was very gracious and welcoming, always making me feel special during the time I worked for her mother, and in the years since. I am privileged to have known her.
    11/10/2025 07:54 pm
    Catharine Dann Roeber writes,
    Joyce was such a wonderful guide...generous in sharing her expertise and kind to a young graduate student! I so appreciated continuing to learn from, and alongside Joyce after I joined the staff. She always shared a deep appreciation for ceramics with colleagues and visitors alike. My best wishes to her family.
    11/10/2025 10:41 pm
    Shelly-Ann Williams writes,
    My deepest condolences to the Longworth family at the lost of the Matriarch of the family. At this time of great sorrow, I want to say Ms. Joyce was a beautiful woman inside and outside. SIP - sleep in peace Ms. Joyce.
    11/11/2025 06:51 pm
    Jean Raleigh writes,
    Joyce was recognized at Winterthur for her deep understanding of H. F. duPont's collections. She could share her knowledge in both French and English to her admiring guests on tours. She was a mentor to me as a new Teaching Guide for many years. Thank you, Joyce!
    11/11/2025 08:31 pm
    Helene Trehu writes,
    I have always considered Joyce (Mrs Longworth to me) as my second mother. Her eldest daughter Monica and I are life long friends, and I feel as if I am a fifth Longworth sister. My condolences to Monica, Kim, Jennifer and Alys as well as to all those who loved and cherished the wonderful, kind, compassionate person that Joyce Longworth embodied. May she Rest in Peace.
    11/18/2025 04:57 pm
    Denise and Peter Wallis writes,
    We send our deepest condolences. I (Denise Wallis) remember Joyce’s pleasant and interesting conversations with me. My impression of Joyce is that of a mild mannered and kind person, highly intelligent, with charming conversations. ❤️
    11/21/2025 12:11 pm
    Mirella hajjar lit a candle and writes,
    Our deepest condolences ~ may her soul rests in peace.
    12/05/2025 12:07 pm
    Irini Skarbek-Borowska writes,
    Many long and happy years ago, two little girls met at Spence School in Manhattan and became close friends. One was called Joyce Kettaneh and lived in a lovely multi-storey apartment on Park Avenue, surrounded by siblings both male and female and with her wonderful parents. The other was called Irini Embiricos and she lived with her family in a small suite of the Devon Hotel on 55th Street. Joyce was born in Beirut, Lebanon while Irini was born in Athens, Greece. Both families fled war and were made welcome in the United States of America. We attended camp Runoia in the summers where Irini taught Joyce to swim! Our common languages were French and English and our European upbringing brought us close. Joyce was always number one in the class while Irini was a close second. Irini always admired Joyce's organisational skills, thoughtfulness and kindness. I am Irini and hold dear all the many memories of Joyce and her numerous family. I also met Ruskin and enjoyed the brandy Alexander he would prepare every evening upon returning from work. The times Joyce and I shared cannot be erased or forgotten; we were too close for that and her loss for me is very painful. I have lost part of my own life in losing her. I remember you Monica as a baby, I thank you Kim for your kindness in writing to me, and to the others whom I never had the joy of meeting, keep your dear Mother alive through memories for yourselves and for your children. May her memory be eternal. Irini Skarbek-Borowska
    12/10/2025 11:14 am

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