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John Ricks Priest

John Ricks Priest, 83, passed away on Saturday, May 14th, after a valiant struggle with kidney disease. John is survived by his wife Joan of West Grove, PA; his son John and wife Mary of St. Augustine, FL; and his daughter Miriam and husband Jerry of Wilmington, DE.

John was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, and grew up in Memphis, Tennessee. He excelled in math and science, played clarinet in the band at Central High School, and was an Eagle Scout. John was a National Merit Scholar and attended the Massachusetts Institute of Technology on a full scholarship. He was on the MIT squash team and played squash and racquetball for many years. After graduation he married his high school sweetheart, Joan Warren, and went to work as a chemical engineer for DuPont in Memphis.

John pursued graduate courses at Memphis State University, and he served six years in the Tennessee National Guard. He was a member of the pistol team and was a crack shot. He attained the rank of First Lieutenant in the Medical Service Corps of the US Army after serving as a dental assistant at Fort Sam Houston in San Antonio, TX.
During his career with DuPont, John worked in the Electrochemical Dept. and was transferred to Orange, Texas, where he enjoyed exploring the environment, playing duplicate bridge with Joan, and fishing with his pals from the plant. He enrolled in graduate courses at Lamar University in Beaumont, TX, and earned a Masters of Mathematics degree from Memphis University. John was transferred to Wilmington, DE, where he worked in fire safety, wire & cable, and financial analysis.

John loved early Renaissance music and played recorders in the Philadelphia Recorder Society, organizing guest musicians and teachers. He served as a board member of Piffaro (the Renaissance Wind Band) and also founded the Delaware Recorder Society.

He and his wife Joan built a contemporary house in the woods near Kennett Square, PA. They enjoyed camping with their children and visited many national parks in the US and Canada. They enjoyed summer weeks at the Star Island Conference Center in NH and adventurous vacations in Paris, France, and Cozumel, Mexico, with Joan’s sister Judith and her husband Ron. Together they barged rivers in France and snorkeled in the Virgin Islands and Honduras.

John belonged to the Unitarian Universalist Church of Wilmington where he sang in the choir for many years. A memorial service will be held at a later date, and contributions may be directed to the church.

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A memorial service will be held at a later date

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    Judy L Kling lit a candle and writes,
    Joan and Mimi, we love you and fondly remember John. What an accomplished and fun life he had with you! Wayne and I send our love.
    05/27/2022 11:16 am
    Linda Young lit a candle and writes,
    John’s twinkling eyes, his gentle smile and voice—that’s what I remember most, all those times at ANC and Piffarro concerts. 💕🎼🕯
    05/29/2022 07:46 am
    Diane Rubacha lit a candle and writes,
    How much I enjoyed "Music on the Rocks" provided by John during Natural History Week at Star Island. How much I enjoyed playing my recorder with him during one or two Chapel Services there. I remember his singing Renaissance music with Miriam and others at a Natural History Week talent show, and I remember one of his especially thoughtful evening Chapel presentation. My condolences to you, Joan, and your family.
    05/29/2022 09:47 am
    Ken D'Ambrosio & Terri Behm writes,
    I opted not to "light a candle," because some of my favorite memories of John are his "Music on the Rocks," and that seemed to call more for a lantern than a candle. Now, granted, he played his music in the daytime, and the lanterns were for nighttime chapel, but the two seem to go together -- much like you, Joan, went together with him. I'm sorry that we've changed conferences, and seen precious little of you in the intervening years, but my memories of both of you are not ones I'll soon forget: you, and your warm, welcoming personality, and John, full of spark, a hint of mischief, and his love of music. He and Mimi, music-ing away at Terri's and my wedding, and him doing even moreso on Star. Of course, my condolences also extend to Mimi and Jerry -- as Yoda might say, "Too long, it has been." All of our blessings and love from up north! Ken & Terri
    06/04/2022 09:00 am
    SJ lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Joan and Miriam, I have thought of you many times over the years, and may even have tried to call. I'm not that great at following up and our own family health issues have been rather all consuming. You both and John are part of my Star Island family. And John was like my Island Dad at NHC and even later at ARTS. (Thank you Miriam for sharing ; ) It was great that we got to experience both of those conferences together.His Loving kindness was always at the ready, with a smile, a listening ear, or a hug. Even a question "How are you doing?" and he was waiting for the long answer not just "fine". Joan and John, you were a model couple for what I hoped I could find in terms of mutual admiration, joy and brilliance and LOVE that was palpable between two people to others who watched you together. That always warmed my heart. Besides his wonderful music talents that he always shared, I will never forget the time that John read one of my poems at his evening chapel service which had never happened to me before. What an honor to be selected. John was another right-brained engineer like my dad who passed just days before John. I bet they are out there building things, inventing things, and making music. At least Dennis would be clapping along. I regret they never met, since they had so many similarities, but they were at MIT around the same time so somehow, I bet they did. I hope John will be coming through to you in rainbows, bird visits and songs on the wind to bring you comfort. Sending you lots of love and understanding and joining you in your time of grieving. I love the classic photo of John and my dad's is in the link below. I hope they are in the ether together building things, like radio transmitters to spread peace and music -SJ HUGS. Dennis Scolamiero HYPER Alumni
    06/12/2022 04:26 pm

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