Eugene F. Thomas

Eugene F. “Gene” or “Butch” Thomas, 74, of Nottingham Pennsylvania passed away at Wilmington Hospital, surrounded by his loving family on Monday, September 1, 2025. Eugene was born in 1953, in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and formerly resided in Toby Farms, Concordville, and Morgantown, Pennsylvania.

At the young age of 16, Gene started his career as a truck driver. The open road became his second home, and with each trip, he collected stories like souvenirs. He would recount the roadside diners where he’d grab a quick bite and chat with locals before heading back home.

In between long hauls on the road, Gene also embarked on his own business endeavors. For over nine years, he proudly owned and operated a Mister Softee franchise, serving sweet treats throughout Darby, Pennsylvania. Never one to sit still, he even began making his own water ice, selling it around the local area with the same dedication and charm that made him a favorite among customers.

Before retiring, Gene drove for Acme, taking routes down to the Jersey Shore. Of all the places he visited, Ocean City, New Jersey held a special place in his heart. He would often choose the Ocean City run just for the chance to breathe in the salty air, hear the laughter of children on the boardwalk rides, and soak in the joy of summer by the sea.
We all remember those phone calls, Gene’s voice on the line, asking with a grin, “Where do you think I am?” Then he’d hold the phone up to the sky so we could hear the sea gulls calling overhead, letting the sounds of the shore speak for themselves.

Gene’s greatest passions were spending time with family, friends and cherishing moments with his grandchildren. He often reminisced about the good times; vacationing with friends in Cancun, bike rides, the friendly competition of racquetball matches, and the thrill of jet skiing across open waters. He especially loved catching waves in Ocean City on his boogie board. But Gene’s true love was the bond he shared with his six grandchildren. He often joked, “If I’d known grandchildren were this much fun, I would’ve had them sooner!” That line became one of his favorites, and it perfectly captured the joy they brought him.

Whether it was playing in the backyard, cheering from the sidelines at sports games, or showing up at school events with a proud smile, Gene was always there. He didn’t just attend, he celebrated. Every achievement, big or small, was a moment he’d share with anyone who’d listen. His pride in them was boundless, and his love unmistakable.

Ever since the grandchildren were babies, Gene made it a tradition to take the family to Ocean City, New Jersey for summer vacations. It wasn’t just a trip; it was a celebration of togetherness. The grandchildren’s joy and laughter were visible as we strolled up and down the boardwalk. The beach became a playground where sandcastles were built and splashing waves, and every moment was wrapped in love. These Shore trips became the highlight of our summers. We all looked forward to them, knowing they would bring more than just sunshine, they brought memories we’ll carry for a lifetime.

He is preceded in death by his mother Frances (Lynde) DiGiacomo and his father, Guy DiGiacomo.

Gene is survived by his brother, Guy DiGiacomo, (Jackie), sister, Kelly Kalitz (John), his son, Steven, his daughter, Debbie Jean and son-in-law (Neil Lehane), his daughter, Lisa and son-in-law (Sean Campbell). Additionally, he leaves behind his beloved grandchildren, Steven Thomas Jr, Dylan Thomas, Leah Thomas, Aidan Lehane, Natalie Lehane and Declan Lehane as well as his cherished nieces and nephews.

In Eugene’s final days, the nurses and staff of Wilmington Hospital Hospice became a source of light and comfort. His family is forever thankful for the grace and care you offered during such a tender time.

Services to celebrate Gene’s life will be held privately.