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Ann “Nancy” Jones Barlow

Ann “Nancy” Jones Barlow lived a full and beautiful life.  She was born in Wilkes Barre, PA in 1937 to parents whom she adored, John Paul and Rose Baiz Jones. At the age of 4, Nancy and her family moved to Wilmington, DE when her father took a job at DuPont Company.

Nancy thrived at P.S. DuPont School. From an early age, she held lead roles in school and community theater.  She and her beloved William “Bill” Barlow met in high school, and both graduated from University of Delaware. They married in 1957 and had two daughters, Ann and Allison. Nancy enjoyed a long career as a first grade teacher and reading specialist at Tower Hill School. To this day, it is not unusual to hear grown adults say she was their favorite teacher.

Outside of her career, she participated in numerous community service activities. She and Bill loved their time as Sunday School teachers at Greenhill Presbyterian Church. She was a docent at Winterthur and helped co-found the annual Holidazzle fashion show gala at Longwood Gardens to benefit DFRC. She volunteered for Hospice’s Festival of Trees, Stephen Ministries, and taught literacy to adults at Wilmington Library and tutored elementary children at Eastside Charter.

She was an avid supporter of Bill’s career as Executive Director of the American Cancer Society in Philadelphia, attending many events and benefits as his “better half.” After their retirement, she and Bill enjoyed winters amongst a vital community at St. Andrews Club in Delray Beach, FL.

Nancy loved children, family and friends, music, singing, gardens, cooking, entertaining and travel. A highlight for Nancy and her family were the trips she planned to Italy, Spain, Germany, Austria, Australia, New Zealand, and for her and Bill, to Egypt and China. She also pursued a passion for researching the history of 19th century life on the Brandywine.  She was fascinated by the lives of the DuPont millworkers and the expansion of local churches that grew out of the Brandywine Manufacturers’ Sunday School.

Nancy and Bill’s primary residence on the Kennett Pike in PA was part of the Underground Railroad—which Nancy studied avidly, and an historic site on the Chester County Day tour that benefited local charities.  Their home was always a welcoming haven for friends and family.

She was predeceased by her brother Russell Jones, and is survived by her husband Bill, sister Barbara Knoll, her daughters, Ann Ashley (Patrick Ashley) and Allison Barlow (Tom Hoen),  four beloved grandchildren, Blakely Ashley Larrabee (Yuri Larrabee), Patrick “Trip” Ashley (Lexi Saunders Ashley), Baiz Hoen and Penn Hoen, and four great grandchildren, Jackson, Patrick and Sophie Larrabee, and William Ashley, cousins and nieces and nephews.

Funeral Services

In lieu of giving flowers, please consider a donation to Tower Hill School honoring her years of service in the Lower School www.towerhill.org/nancybarlow

Services will be held at Westminster Church, 1502 W. 13th St., Wilm., DE at 2 pm on Thursday, December 18. Interment will be private.

Condolences

    Madalyn Schultz Petit writes,
    Dear Ann and family, I am sorry to read of your mom's passing. Sending condolences, Madalyn
    12/12/2025 04:55 pm
    Mary Ball Morton writes,
    Dear Bill and Family, John and I loved having Nancy as our son, Jack's, first grade teacher at Tower Hill many years ago. We enjoyed seeing both of you through the years and know that she'll be missed by many. We send our love and deepest sympathy to you and all of your family. Mary Ball and John Morton
    12/13/2025 12:00 pm
    Jo Rohrman Wommack writes,
    You and Bill are some of my favorite people. Thank you both for being who you are. I absolutely adore you both and feel privileged to have met you . I love you and miss you. I will never forget the Bobowski cheer you taught Monica and me. And how you always made us laugh. You are so well loved and will be missed terribly.
    12/13/2025 05:43 pm
    Mary Jo and Victor Orsinger writes,
    Dear Bill, Ann, Patrick and family. We were so very very sorry to see the In Memoriam message from St Andrew’s of Nancy’s passing. We loved Nancy - always so kind and joyful and welcoming to all. Nancy was a bright light and we were so fond of her (and you too Bill). May she rest in peace - we send our love and prayers. Xoxo Mary Jo and Victor
    12/14/2025 01:33 pm
    Frankie Stevens writes,
    A truely wonderful, caring, warm person. She will be missed in St Andrews.
    12/14/2025 03:51 pm
    Stanley g brown lit a candle and writes,
    Bill, how long has it been? So sorry to read about your wife’s passing. I know she was a very rare person and you had a great life with many happy years together
    12/14/2025 05:05 pm
    Kristen Speakman lit a candle and writes,
    Sending heartfelt condolences to Allison and the entire Barlow family. May your mother’s memory be a blessing and a comfort during this time, and may grace be with you all.
    12/14/2025 10:59 pm
    John and Dodo Newlin lit a candle and writes,
    Condiolences to all in the Barlow family. Nancy was a treasure wherever she roamed: an excellent and loving teacher (of one of our boys), a talented and creative person, a good friend, and someone who emobodied goodwill and kindness.
    12/15/2025 10:16 am
    Michael Fidance writes,
    Dear Ann and Allison Indeed, your Mom was my favourite teacher ever at THS. (And both of you were my favours babysitters of all time!). But more than that both your Mom and Dad were part of the social fabric of a close knit community in greater Wilmington for more than 50 years and part of my life for all of that time , including sponsoring ileana and me at The Union League Club in NYC where we had our wedding reception —with both your Mom and Dad in attendance. My condolences to your Dad and my thoughts with your whole family in what I know first hand to be a sorrowful time. Xx Michael.
    12/15/2025 11:47 am
    Mary Jo Fidance writes,
    Dear Bill, Ann, and Allison, Nancy and Bill and you girls, as well as Russ, shared a longstanding friendship with Ernie and me and our kids over many years with many happy memories. It is with deep regret that I will not be here for the funeral. But I will be thinking of all of you at this very sad time. With the most heartfelt condolences for the loss of your dear wife and Mom, Nancy. A very special person! With love, Mary Jo
    12/15/2025 01:58 pm
    Jenni Fidance Weldon writes,
    Dear Ann and Allison - I was so sad to hear of your mother's passing. When I think of her, I always remember how kind she was. She and your father (and, really, both of you) were fixtures in our childhood and I have nothing but fond memories. Please know I'm thinking of you during this difficult time. Love, Jenni
    12/15/2025 02:59 pm
    Ashley White lit a candle and writes,
    Sending my love and light. ❤️
    12/15/2025 04:29 pm
    Angie Lee lit a candle and writes,
    Allison & Family, please accept my heartfelt condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
    12/15/2025 04:37 pm
    Nasir Mohammady lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Allison and the Barlow Family, Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your mother. May her memory bring you peace, strength, and comfort during this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
    12/15/2025 04:45 pm
    Alex & Ellie Tilt lit a candle and writes,
    We were so lucky to know Nancy during her winters at St. Andrews Club. She and Bill were truly inseparable, and the love they shared was obvious to everyone around them. Our hearts and condolences go out to Bill, Anne, Patrick and the entire Barlow family. — Love from Alex and Ellie
    12/15/2025 09:06 pm
    Katie Nelson writes,
    Dear Allison, Ann, Bob, and family-- I'm in awe reading about the incredibly full and purposeful life your wife/mom led, and what an amazing legacy she has left behind through all of you. Keeping you all in my thoughts and prayers in the days ahead. Peace & love, Katie Nelson
    12/15/2025 09:14 pm
    Rayden Tieu lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Bill, My deepest condolences on the passing of Nancy. She will be truly missed.
    12/15/2025 09:42 pm
    Bonnie Fairchild writes,
    My heart is saddened to learn of Nancy's death. Good, good friends a long time ago. Condolences to Bill and family. Fondly, with good memories. Bonnie
    12/16/2025 07:57 am
    Lilly Li lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
    12/16/2025 08:29 am
    Marlena Hammen writes,
    Dear Allison, Ann, Mr. Bill, & Family, I am so very sorry for your loss. Please accept my deepest condolences. I hope you find comfort in the love and memories you shared, and in the support of those around you during this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
    12/16/2025 09:09 am
    Ali Fayyazi writes,
    Dear Allison, Ann, Bill, & Family, I was deeply saddened to hear about your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the love and support of those around you and may cherished memories bring you peace. Thinking of you and your family.
    12/16/2025 10:08 am
    Brooklynn Barney writes,
    Sending love and strength to you, Allison, and your family.
    12/16/2025 10:14 am
    Andrew Homsey writes,
    Dear Bill, Ann, and Allison (and the entire family), please accept my heartfelt condolences. I reiterate some others here in saying that she was my all-time favorite teacher. She left her impression on me and countless others. A beautiful, wonderful teacher, mother, and overall human.
    12/16/2025 12:13 pm
    Carol Hogue lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Ann and family, It’s not a surprise that your mother lived a full and grace-filled and vibrant life - touching the lives of so many children and their families. She now lives within each of you to be remembered… always. Sending my love and comfort, Carol
    12/16/2025 03:29 pm
    Leonela Nelson writes,
    Allison and Family, Please accept my deepest condolences. Sending you positive healing vibes.
    12/16/2025 03:53 pm
    Bonnie White writes,
    Dear Bill, What a loss for you that Nancy has passed away. You two were so kind to me years ago, when I joined the White family. Thank you. Being alone is hard. There is nobody left who can quite understand you. Nancy was a lovely, kind person. All the best for you and your family. Xoxo Bonnie White
    12/17/2025 07:59 am
    Jim&Pat Simon writes,
    Dear Bill and Family, We are sorry to hear about Nancy. You both were always as nice and pleasant as anyone could be to Pat and myself. The time we spent at St Andrews are filled with wonderful memories created by you, Nancy and now your daughter. There is no other place that will ever have nicer people than Bill and Nancy Barlow. It was our privilege and honor to have known Nancy, you and your daughter. Our sincerest condolences to you and your family. Jim and Pat
    12/17/2025 01:56 pm
    Laurie and Jay Edinger writes,
    Dear Ann and family, Your mother is a Tower Hill legend. A smart, classy woman who was dedicated to her family and passionate about giving back to the community through her service as an educator and work to better the lives of others. Her brilliant smile and kind spirit will be remembered! Laurie and Jay
    12/17/2025 05:17 pm
    Michelle Coulter writes,
    Thinking of you and your family, Ann! XO Michelle
    12/18/2025 06:48 am
    Brigitte and Markus Mayr lit a candle and writes,
    All those previous messages attest to how kind, popular and admired Nancy was by her friends and how involved she was all her life in the Wilmington Community, and later on when she and Bill lived here in Florida. She and Bill were good friends to both of us, and Nancy will be greatly missed. Our heartfelt condolences to Bill and all the Barlow family. I wished we could be there to honor her memory, but we will be there in Spirit if not in Person. Our heart goes out to Bill at this difficult time, but we know Ann and Allison will be there for him. Warmest wishes from Brigitte and Markus (in Florida)
    12/18/2025 12:09 pm
    Barbara P, Kraus writes,
    Dear Bill, Ann & Alison and all of Nancy's beloved family - I just learned of her passing this morning, and am so glad that Barbi and I got to visit with Nancy & Bill this summer. Bill & my late husband grew up together, were friends always, and Bill brought his beautiful Nancy to meet us when they began dating, and we all shared so many of life's adventures together over the years, including the births of Ann & Alison, their wonderful home in Chadds Ford. Nancy was always a vibrant and beautiful person, interesting, caring, and intelligent and a great friend. I will miss her always and send my love to all who are grieving her loss.
    12/20/2025 01:47 pm
    Betsey Moses lit a candle and writes,
    Our sincere sympathy to Bill, Ann, Allison, Barbara, and your families from Ginger, TJ Jr, and me. We all have fond memories of Nancy from our childhoods and from family gatherings as we were growing up. Wishing you love and light. Ginger, TJ and Betsey Moses
    12/20/2025 02:42 pm
    Meeghan Carter writes,
    Nancy was such a dear person and loving . A very dear friend of my Mother (Peggy Flint ) They spent many times together at Greenville Country Club and getting together at social gatherings . Nancy was a wonderful support of mine when my Mom passed tragically several years ago. When she entered a room her personality just lit up a room .So organized with all that she did and spoke of her family with joy and compassion . Her THS days she always spoke to me about the connections and the relationships that she shared with the students . Sorry to hear this and we are thinking of you at this time . Our love and prayers . Nancy presence will be with you always .
    12/25/2025 09:11 am
    Lisa L Bixby writes,
    Sending love and hugs. xxxooo Lisa Bixby
    12/26/2025 01:13 pm
    Priscilla Beam lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Bill, Ann, Allison, grandchildren and great grandchildren, I just learned the news about Nancy! Although it has been several years since we were all together, I will always remember the good times we had-Bruce, Bill, Nancy and me….long standing friends. Please know I am thinking of you as you go forward without vibrant Nancy! Many thoughts and prayers to all of you. Love forever, Priscilla Beam (Bruce Beam)
    01/14/2026 04:35 pm
    Sara Beam VanLandingham lit a candle and writes,
    I am so sorry to learn of the loss of Nancy. She has been such a wonderful support of our family. I will never forget her.
    01/16/2026 04:25 pm

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