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John Kuniholm

John Kuniholm, of Greenville, Delaware passed away of Alzheimers disease and Covid-19 on January 24, 2022 at the age of 94.

A native of Gardner, Massachusetts he was born in 1928, the eldest son of W. Gardner and Esther Kuniholm. He was predeceased by his brother, Paul Kuniholm of Hingham, MA. John was deeply proud of his small town roots where he was an Eagle Scout and graduated from Gardner High School in 1946. He was also proud of his Finnish-Swedish heritage and spent many years documenting the family genealogy.

John received a bachelor’s degree in History from his beloved Amherst College in 1950 and graduated from Harvard Law School in 1953. He received a grant to attend NYU Law School where he obtained a Master of Laws degree. In 1954, he married Margot Alice Herring, daughter of H. Walton and Marguerite Herring of New Canaan, CT. Soon after they were married, John was drafted and served in the US Army Counterintelligence Corps and was stationed at the Pentagon where he wore civilian clothes and his rank was classified. In 1956, he and Margot moved to Wilmington, Delaware where he joined the law department of Hercules Powder Company where he practiced law until he retired as Assistant General Counsel in 1992. His career at Hercules included many trips to Asia and Europe. He was known as a valued mentor to younger lawyers and relished the role of trusted advisor and friend.

After John retired, he volunteered for Delaware Hospice. He and Margot were season ticket holders to the Wilmington Symphony, which they enjoyed with a group of their friends. He was a shareholder and board member of the Island Inn Company, Sanibel Island, FL and a longtime member of Christ Church, Wilmington Country Club and the Bakers Beach Club in Westport Point, MA where his family spent every August for more than 60 years. He was also a dedicated member of the New England Genealogical Society. Though he lived in the mid-Atlantic for most of his life, New England was always close to his heart.

John was a true intellectual who was a voracious reader and loved a good debate. When other men were watching football on Sunday afternoon, he would be found reading the New York Times while listening to the opera. He played a repertoire of classical music on the piano and enjoyed singing in the chorus at Stonegates. In the summer months, his vegetable garden was a source of great pleasure to him and he loved riding around his property in Chadds Ford on his tractor. He took great joy in the outdoors whether he was fishing, walking or combing the beach for seashells on Sanibel Island. He enjoyed sharing all of these experiences with his children and grandchildren. His grandchildren remember fondly digging for worms in the garden to use as bait for fishing in the backyard pond. The consummate family man, John was most proud of his children, encouraging each of them to pursue their goals and dreams. He was always a gentleman, holding doors and dressing in a collared shirt.

John is survived by his wife, Margot, of 67 years and four children: Thomas Kuniholm (Terry Siebert) of Bainbridge Island, WA; Julie Weaver (John) of Wellsboro, PA; Nancy Aronhalt of Glen Mills, PA; and Wendy Sullivan (JB) of Yarmouth, Maine. He has 12 grandchildren: Sam and Isabel Kuniholm, Andrew and Sophie Weaver, Todd, Nina (Blum), Holly, and MacKenzie Aronhalt, and Aidan, Thomas, Lydia, and John Gibbs Sullivan. He also has one great-grandchild, Madalyn Weaver.

Margot and her family are eternally grateful to the staff at Stonegates, especially Jessica, Heather and Marie for their love and compassion (“for Papa John”).

Funeral Services

The family will gather next summer at the seashore in Westport Point, MA to celebrate his life.

Condolences

    Christina Fay lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Julie and family, I'm so sorry to learn of your father's passing. This is a beautiful write up of his life, and it his was clearly a life well-lived. May your good and joyful memories be of some comfort to you at this time. John joins me in sending you our prayers and condolences. Peace, Christina and John Fay New Orleans
    01/31/2022 03:05 pm
    Lolita A Lopez writes,
    Dear Margot, It has been many years since we have connected but I wanted to express my condolences to you and your family for the loss of your dear husband John. I will always regard you as a treasured mentor to me many years ago from the Children's Beach House. Thank you for all you your family have done for our community. Sending you love and best regards, Lolita Lopez
    02/02/2022 07:01 am
    Linda M Hackendorn lit a candle and writes,
    I'm very sorry for your loss Margot , I just lost my husband of 56 years in October , so I understand what you are feeling .. I pray for you and your family & will continue to pray for all of you .. I was the Linda that worked for Mrs. Hanavan . God bless
    02/02/2022 09:43 am
    walter and beverley rowland writes,
    Dear Margot- We just saw John's obituary in the News Journal. Your John was a good friend and a fine lawyer while we were together at Hercules. We had heard he was not well and we missed you two at Christ Church. You and he lived a long loving life together. And he certainly lived a long, full life. We are very sad to lose him. Since his family only service will be in Mass. next summer, we will not plan to attend. We would like to send a contribution in his honor/memory and thought of the New England Genealogical Society where he was a member according to his obituary. Please let us know how to designate our donation. We wish you well and good health! You are in good hands at Stone Gates! With sincere condolences and our prayers, Walter and Beverley Rowland
    02/02/2022 04:18 pm
    Leslie Porter lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Mrs. Kuniholm, Tom, Julie, Nancy and Wendy: As beautifully recounted in his obituary, Mr. Kuniholm lived life to the fullest blessed with an abundant family tree, many friends, quality time spent in the great outdoors, intellectual fervor, service to country, and appreciation for history (genealogy) and the arts. Mr. Kuniholm's service to those in Delaware Hospice was the epitome of paying it forward. I have to believe Mr. Kuniholm knew of my grandfather Paul Mayfield who also worked for Hercules back in the day. For the past week I have been thinking about Julie, my class of 1976 Friends School classmate. Nancy was classmates with my sister, Nina who I am certain joins me in sending our condolences to each of you at this time of sadness. At the very least we can celebrate Mr. Kunoholm's release from Alzheimers, a thief of a disease which robs our loved ones of their dignity. God bless you, and God bless Mr. Kuniholm. Yours sincerely, Leslie Porter of Rockville, Maryland.
    02/02/2022 08:45 pm
    Elizabeth Engel (Liz) lit a candle and writes,
    To you "Tita", and all the family - I'm sorry to learn of John's (and your Dad's) passing. I wish I'd seen more of you all, but will never forget the wonderful and memorable visits with you all, at the Cape in the '70s and '80s! The North Chatham house was so cozy and quaint, and conversations always lively! And we'll always remember Tia Mona's 90th b-day celebration in 1990! Thank you for this meaningful biography of your Dad - a very special man in numerous ways. May God's Presence and Peace be with each of you in the days ahead. You'll remain in my thoughts and prayers - with love, cousin Liz
    02/03/2022 11:19 pm
    Nancy Branick Goodrich writes,
    Margot, I have such good memories of our times together many years ago. You were a large part of my Wilmington days. I hope you are well and know John is at peace. Fondly, Nancy Goodrich [email protected]
    02/23/2022 11:29 am
    Peggy Tracy writes,
    I just now found out about Mr. Kuniholm's passing, as I always think of him and his wife and wonder how they are doing. It's been a few years since I've seen him, but I would be remiss if I didn't comment on what a wonderful man Mr. Kuniholm was in this life. They don't make them like him any anymore!!!! He was my boss at Hercules Incorporated for many, many years and treated me like a daughter. I will never forget him because of his kindness, professionalism, intelligence, and overall wonderful role model for all who knew him! He made a major impact in my life just because of who he was. I visited Mr. and Mrs. Kuniholm a few years ago in their retirement home, and he was just as lovely then as always. My sincerest condolences to his children and family!
    01/23/2023 04:26 pm

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