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Thomas Francis Pawlikowski

Thomas Francis Pawlikowski, 63, of Wilmington, DE, passed away on November 24, 2020 doing one of the things he loved most. Swimming. Born in Jacksonville, FL, Tom was the son of the late Joseph Francis Pawlikowski and Patricia (Smulski) Pawlikowski. He attended and graduated from Immaculate Heart of Mary School, Salesianum School, and the University of Delaware.

Tom is survived by his wife Yvette, and step-children Ariel and Jared; sisters Nancy Dugan and Julie Sisofo; brothers Jerry Pawlikowski and Peter Pawlikowski; daughters Rachel Pawlikowski (Carrie Hanson), Lindsay Pawlikowski (Dante Brinkley), and Jayne Pawlikowski (Stephen Wilkerson); grandchildren Jayden, Auria, Quinn, Kaiya, and Dante Jr.; first wife and dear friend Cynthia Yeakle; and loving nieces and nephews.

Tom loved his friends and family dearly and enjoyed getting everyone together at his home. He was passionate about Maryland crabbing and hosted numerous crab feasts each year. He took great pleasure in making his delicious crab dip, which was second only to his famous, homemade kielbasa. Additionally, he enjoyed horseshoes, bowling, gardening, visiting Longwood Gardens, and was an avid Philadelphia sports fan. Tom had a tremendous sense of humor which was accompanied by an infectious smile and ornery giggle. He loved making others laugh.

Above all, Tom was a Christian man who remained faithful to God. After giving so much to his family and friends in life, the donation of his life-saving organs allowed Tom to continue to spread generosity, love, and life to others in need.

Funeral services are being held privately. However, honoring Tom’s wishes, family and friends are invited to a Celebration of Life and Crab Feast in the Spring/Summer of 2021 (crab-season). Date, time, and location are TBD.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made in his name to the Chesapeake Bay Foundation: www.cbf.org/about-the-bay/more-than-just-the-bay/chesapeake-wildlife/blue-crabs/

 

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Condolences

    Jerry Pawlikowski writes,
    My brother Tom passed from this life way too early, but he died a happy man with hope and dreams for the future. Tom’s spirit will live forever!
    11/27/2020 05:15 pm
    Bryan Abrams writes,
    One of my best friends growing up ,he always had that great smile .The crabbing with him and his family was so much fun.One of the last times I was with him was eating crabs at his house . He will be truly missed
    11/27/2020 06:38 pm
    Theresa and Bob Wood lit a candle and writes,
    Rachel we are so sorry for your and your family’s loss. Your father, Tom, sounds like an amazing person. May your hearts be full and your sorrow be lighten by the treasure trove of loving memories held of him. May they bring you comfort during this very difficult time. Theresa, Bob Wood and family
    11/27/2020 09:40 pm
    Patricia Morgan & Michael Morgan lit a candle and writes,
    So sorry for the loss of a wonderful father and man. May you enjoy the great memories of his life and find solace in the good times. God Bless.
    11/28/2020 08:41 am
    Timothy F. Tarker writes,
    Tom was a long-time friend that sadly I had lost touch with. Keep your friendships and relations alive in his memory. We don't go back.
    11/28/2020 06:23 pm
    Rachel Kriger writes,
    I’m Sending love and comfort to your whole Family, Rachel. I’m so grateful that I got to meet your dad at your wedding. His joy and energy were radiating. May his memory be for a blessing.
    11/28/2020 11:47 pm
    Jan Pease writes,
    So sorry for the loss of Tom. My family lived on Athens Road in Green Acres and spent a lot of time with your family. Rest In Peace, Tom. Blessings, Jan Pease
    11/29/2020 10:59 am
    Jerry Coghlan lit a candle and writes,
    Tom touched so many of us with his warmth and humor. I miss my friend. May God bless his family and give them strength.
    11/29/2020 12:44 pm
    Ellen Goldstein-Calvarese lit a candle and writes,
    My family grew up in Green Acres. I remember Tom also being on the swim team. We had recently connected and talked about old days, sports and family. He always spoke of his family. One of the things I loved most about Tom. I will miss you more than you know. Just sitting and listening to the Koi pond looking at Tom’s beautifully landscaped backyard which he meticulously maintained while reminiscing the “old” days. You will never be forgotten my dear friend. Rest in eternal peace!! Much love in Heaven. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your families and friends. Peace be with you all!
    11/29/2020 01:01 pm
    Mike Bonkowski lit a candle and writes,
    I knew Tom in high school, but, as with so many old friends, life took us in different directions. We ran into each other years later and it was like we had seen each other very day since high school graduation. He was a great guy then and, and from what I see remained a great man his entire life. My condolences to his family. God bless you all and Tom.
    11/29/2020 02:51 pm
    Deb Wynings lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences to the Pawlikowski family. Such a tragic loss for all.
    11/30/2020 11:15 am
    The Zappa Family lit a candle and writes,
    Tom and I shared a lot in our lives even when we didn’t know each other—IHM, Sallies, and the U of D. What we shared when we met years later and became friends was a deep love of our daughters and a commitment to community-based youth sports. Tom was a great father ... and coach. I had the good fortune of being one of his assistants on the many softball teams he coached. The girls loved to play for Dad and for good reason—he always treated them with respect, and was never critical of how they played in the field. He singled out the least talented on the teams and commended them for even the smallest of accomplishments. It brought smiles to their faces ... and mine. Some anecdotes for the girls. For Rachel and Lindsay: My daughter, Holly, was the youngest and least talented on the team. She batted last in the order. In one game we played, she came to bat and the ball inadvertently struck her bat and dropped to the ground a few inches in front of the plate. Holly didn’t know it was in the field of play until Dad yelled to Holly to “run.” Holly took off like Forrest Gump, arms flailing, and didn’t stop at first, prompting the catcher to throw the ball over the first baseman’s head. The right fielder then proceeded to throw it over the second baseman’s head into left field when Holly didn’t stop at second. Disregarding the third base coach’s directive to stop at third, Holly made the turn at third, the third baseman’s swipe of her glove—after she caught the left fielder’s throw—missing Holly by a whisker. The play ended when the catcher dropped the third baseman’s throw as Holly stumbled across the plate and tumbled to the ground. When Holly came to the dugout to the cheers of the girls (and the chuckles of the coaches), Dad congratulated her for just hitting the “shortest” home run in the history of softball. For Jayne: Mallory has only happy remembrances of Dad and you. Do do I. We all do. The Zappa Family
    11/30/2020 01:26 pm

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