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John Cameron Yorkston

John Cameron Yorkston of Hockessin, Delaware died peacefully with his family by his side on February 24, 2026, after a brief but valiant battle with Acute Myeloid Leukemia (AML).

Cam was born in Wilmington, Delaware, in 1949.  He graduated from The Tatnall School in 1967, as a “lifer,” having attended since preschool in 1953.  He went on to graduate from the University of Delaware in 1971 earning a B.A. in American History and Philosophy.  It was at UD where he met his wife, Kathleen Camilli Yorkston and became a member of the Alpha Tau Omega fraternity, forging lifelong friendships.  Cam pursued his Masters of Divinity and Masters of Theology at Princeton Theological Seminary, graduating in 1975. He was ordained as a Minister in the Presbyterian Church (USA) in 1975.  Upon graduation from Seminary, he earned graduate credits in Educational Leadership while simultaneously working in the Division of Continuing Education at the University of Delaware from 1975-1977.

Cam’s unique combination of theology and leadership enabled his long and distinguished career in philanthropic fundraising to reach so many.  Cam was the consummate professional who exemplified working with integrity, kindness and commitment for over 50 years.  He began his fundraising career as Director of Development at The Tatnall School in 1977.  He then went on to hold positions as the Director of Corporate and Foundation Relations at the University of Delaware and as Deputy Director of Public Affairs and Development at Hagley Museum and Library, before returning to Tatnall in 1986 as Assistant Headmaster for Advancement and Director of Development.  In 1999, he founded Yorkston Consulting.  In his capacity as President, Cam assisted a broad range of organizations with their fundraising, communications, governance and strategic planning programs.  With his wisdom and skill and steady and guiding hand, he provided strong stewardship and principled direction helping many organizations move forward from mere dreams to fully functioning organizations.  He is remembered as being a leader with grace, personality, optimism and a knack for creative problem-solving.  Cam worked independently before being joined by his wife, Kathy, upon her retirement from Tatnall in 2010.

Cam’s commitment to the community outside of his professional life was widely recognized and revered.  He volunteered in various leadership roles within numerous professional, community and service organizations.  Notably, he served as the founding President of Delaware’s Brandywine Chapter of the Association of Fundraising Professionals, served on its Board of Directors for many years, was a recipient of the Fundraising Executive of the Year Award and more recently received the AFP Lifetime Achievement Award.  He became a member of The Rotary Club of Wilmington in 1985 and served in many capacities before rising to the role of Governor of District 7630 for Delaware and Maryland’s Eastern Shore.  For his lifelong service, he was the recipient of a Rotary District 7630 Service Award and was a member of the Paul Harris Society of Rotary international.

To many, Cam represented the true foundation of philanthropy and embodied the Rotary motto of “Service above Self” in everything he did.  He gave unselfishly and was always there to lend a consoling, helping hand to others.  Cam was a friend to all, and could develop and maintain friendships like no other.  He never missed the chance to say something nice, do something good, or share something positive.  To know and to be loved by him was truly something special.  Most of all, Cam cherished his role as husband, father and grandfather.  He loved traveling with his family, whether to Rehoboth Beach every summer, or to more far-flung locales like the Canadian Rockies, Munich, Vienna, and Budapest.  He enjoyed life, was game for almost anything, and his loved ones find solace in knowing that he lived every day to the fullest.  He leaves a legacy to be admired and treasured. He will live on as a force among his family members, whose lives were profoundly enriched by his love and presence.

Cam was predeceased by his younger brother, Kenneth A. Yorkston; his father, John Yorkston; and his mother, Doris Yorkston.  He is survived by his wife of nearly 52 years, Kathleen Camilli Yorkston; his daughter, Christina Yorkston (Duncan McNiff); grandsons, Ian and Graham; his sister, Karen Fanning; and several nieces and nephews, and great nieces and nephews.

Cam’s family sends heartfelt thanks for the excellent care he received from the doctors, nurses and medical staff at the Hospital of the University of Pennsylvania, especially Dr. Jakub Svoboda, Dr. Selena M. Luger and Dr. Andrew Matthews. They are also thankful for the care and support from Griswold Home Care and Delaware Hospice.

Funeral Services

A memorial service will be held at 2pm, on Friday, March 6th, 2026, at Westminster Presbyterian Church, 1502 West 13th Street, Wilmington, DE.  Interment will be private.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests that donations be made in Cam’s memory to The Yorkston Family Scholarship Fund at: The Tatnall School, 1501 Barley Mill Road, Wilmington, DE 19807 or tatnall.org/giving.

Condolences

    Jack Markell writes,
    This is such sad news. Cam was decent, honorable, effective and respectful to all. It’s no wonder he was beloved. Deepest condolences to the family.
    02/28/2026 09:54 pm
    Sandy Idstein writes,
    Dear Kathy, Christina, and everyone in Cam's family, Please know that I am sending comforting thoughts and prayers to all of you about the passing of Cam. I can't imagine a major Tatnall function without Cam being there. Since my early days at Tatnall, when I first met Cam, he has always been a genuine gentleman and friend to all. Cam exuded warmth and kindness and made you feel he really cared about you and what you were doing. I, and many others, will miss him; I hope you can take comfort in the outpouring of love and affection from all who knew him.
    03/01/2026 01:07 pm
    Marsha and Tom Young lit a candle and writes,
    Cam always impressed us because he was always so kind to us when we moved onto "the lane". When I was hospitalized a few years back, he would always check in with my husband when he drove past and always let my husband know that he and Kathy were praying for me. Cam took great pride in his wife and family and his home showed such pride of ownership with not a single blade of grass out of place and his Tatnall birdhouse proudly displayed in his front yard! Cam will leave a lasting legacy for all of his earthly contributions, but I will always remember him as a man who loves his wife and family so very much and wanted to make a beautiful life for them. ❤️
    03/01/2026 08:39 pm
    Sam Waltz lit a candle and writes,
    My wife Sandi and I send our Prayers for the Peace that Passeth Understanding to Kathy and those who Cam leaves behind on the occasion of his passing. Cam was one of the best that Delaware offered our community. Cam and I went back more than 30 years, particularly via Rotary Club of Wilmington where each of us was active for decades, also via the Little Sisters of the Poor of Delaware where I'd helped head its Community Advisory Board and Cam assisted us in Development campaigns. Cam and I crossed paths in the most positive ways more times and in more ways that ever I could recount. He will be missed. Our condolences to his family, to his beloved Tatnall community. RIP, Cam!
    03/01/2026 08:59 pm
    Paresh Perry Patel lit a candle and writes,
    RIP.
    03/02/2026 01:33 am
    Nancy Fleming writes,
    Rest easy, Cam. You were a good and faithful servant and a gentle man. I know some of your very best characteristics live on in Christina, Ian and Graham. Sending so much love to Kathy and Christina and to all of Cam’s family at this sad time. ❤️
    03/02/2026 07:23 am
    C. Hewitt and D. Holloway lit a candle and writes,
    Kathy, We are sorry to hear of this loss of such a decent human being. We send our condolences to you and your family. Dan Holloway and C. Hewitt
    03/02/2026 08:46 am
    Joe and Joyce Pesci writes,
    I have fought a good fight, Ihave finished the race. I have kept the faith. 2Timothy 4:7 Yes Cam, you did and now you are with the Lord. You were always proud of your four cousins Joyce, Margaret, Jean and Barbara. You and I had a special relationship and I will miss you and all our texting about family history. sending love to Kathy, Christina, Karen and family. We will meet again.
    03/02/2026 10:58 am
    John and Dodo Newlin writes,
    Dodo and I are terribly saddened by Cam's passing. What a true gentleman, role model, Rotarian, philanthropist, and friend he was to so many of us. He will be missed greatly. We send our love and condolences to Kathy and family.
    03/02/2026 11:01 am
    Deirdre L Taylor writes,
    Cam knew me as De Hearn. We both lived in Cooper Farm and went to Tatnall for for 3 years together. We also worked and UD at the same time and both had wonderful relationships with President and Mrs. Brabant. Cam was of great comfort to Mrs. Trabant when Dr. Tabant passed away. We ran into each other often and it was just like you saw him yesterday. Cam was a kind, caring, intelligent and gifted man and will be deeply missed by all who knew him.
    03/02/2026 11:43 am
    Tommy Hughes writes,
    Cam was a great guy! I got to work with him at Tatnall and then had the pleasure to substitute teach his grandson Graham! He was always so kind and cordial when we ran into each other.
    03/02/2026 01:18 pm
    AFP Brandywine Chapter Board of Directors writes,
    Our hearts are heavy with sadness. Cam was AFP Brandywine Chapter's Founding President and served on the AFP Brandywine Board of Directors for many years. No words can truly describe the impact Cam's life and work had on our community and so many of us, professionally and personally. You will be missed and remembered, always.
    03/02/2026 06:23 pm
    Pete Booker writes,
    Cam was my friend for essentially our entire lives. He was an example how to really live one’s life in the right way… the best way. Susan and I shall miss him terribly.
    03/03/2026 07:38 am
    Angie Phinney writes,
    I am so sorry to hear of Cam’s passing. He was truly a caring, compassionate, and committed person. I am honored to have known and worked with him. My condolences to Kathy and the entire family.
    03/03/2026 08:19 am
    Dan Barbato writes,
    My deepest condolences and prayers for healing and peace. I truly enjoyed the time we had working together.
    03/03/2026 08:39 am
    Tim Slavin writes,
    My sadness at Cam's passing is eased by the memories of his presence in my life. Godspeed, my friend.
    03/03/2026 08:53 am
    Vernita Dorsey lit a candle and writes,
    Rest in peace Cam, my life is forever changed just by knowing you. Your life was a true reflection of what we as humans should be.
    03/03/2026 09:52 am
    Brent Baker writes,
    Cam was one of the most wonderful development fundraisers who truely loved helping others to reach their personal and organizational goals to serve others. He brought a joy to service to community. We miss him, but his spirit lives on in all he touched. Kathy our prayers are with you. Brent & Malinda Baker
    03/03/2026 01:48 pm
    Krus Wolff (Fasig) writes,
    Kathy and Christina, my thoughts are with you. Cam was such a great guy and I know it's a huge loss.
    03/03/2026 02:26 pm
    Elizabeth (Kolb) Farr writes,
    I knew Cam through my dad, John Kolb, who had a professional (fundraising consulting) and personal friendship with Cam. I am so sad to learn of Cam's passing but know that my dad will enjoy reuniting with him in Heaven. Please accept my deepest and most sincere condolences for your loss and know that I am thinking of you.
    03/03/2026 04:39 pm
    David and Romi Spisak lit a candle and writes,
    We are so deeply saddened to hear about Cam’s passing. Our memories of Cam will always be filled with thoughts of his kindness, intelligence, and warmth. He was a true gentleman who had a positive influence on everyone he encountered. We will forever hold his memory dear in our hearts. Our love, thoughts, and prayers are with Kathy, Christina and the entire family during this difficult time.
    03/03/2026 06:04 pm
    Anne & Dick Wier writes,
    Dear Kathy & family; Dick and I are so deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your beloved Cam. When our children were at Tatnall and I was navigating many different leadership positions Cam was always there for me in support and advice along the way. Unfortunately Dick and I are out of State and will miss his service, put please know that we are there in heart. Anne & Dick Wier
    03/04/2026 08:12 am
    David Fleming lit a candle and writes,
    Kathy, Christina, Ian & Graham, If only your pain of Cam’s passing could be lessened by the overwhelming love his many, many friends, then those of us who are thinking of you today will just hug you tighter. Cam has been a bright light in many of our lives. His glow will remain with us until the end of our days. May he rest in peace. Dave & Kathy Fleming
    03/04/2026 11:40 am
    Robert Megonigal lit a candle and writes,
    Hi, Cam and I grew up together in a place called Cooper Farm. He says we met when we were four not sure but his memory was always better than mine. We spent summers riding bicycles playing in the creek going to Tatnall to swim in the pools. The real mystery is why we remained friends all these years. He went to Tatnall I went to public school he went to Delaware I became a Sergeant in the Army. Later he went to Princeton I started my apprenticeship in LU 313 as a electrician. Through the years we remained friends more like brothers. I was able to visit him a few days before his passing we laughed and cried but I saw that he was becoming tired so I bid him goodby. Sadly I learned what goodby means that day. A friend of mine said he was one of the good ones how true. God speed Cam!
    03/05/2026 07:16 pm
    The Bell Family writes,
    Dear Cathy, Christina, Duncan, Ian and Graham- We are thinking of you and holding you in our hearts. We understand too well how hard this is and can only express our solidarity and love with your family. Our prayers are with you all. With love, Mike, Emily and Ben
    03/06/2026 08:07 am
    Sharon M Struthers writes,
    Kathy, We were deeply saddened to hear about the passing of Cam. We want to extend our heartfelt condolences to you and your family during this incredibly difficult time. Having had the privilege to work alongside Cam on several nonprofit fundraising projects, we can honestly say that his dedication, passion, and tireless efforts made a significant impact. Cam was a pleasure to work with and his commitment to making a difference will never be forgotten. With deepest sympathy, Sharon & Ric Struthers
    03/06/2026 09:51 am
    Larry Karas lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Kathy and Family, I was truly sorry to learn of Cam's passing. He was a bright light in our lives. It was a pleasure to enjoy his friendship and to be colleaque's at the Tatnall School.. We shared many fond memories. Cam will be missed but legacy will live on. Rest in peace my friend.
    03/06/2026 11:29 am
    Tracy Friswell-Jacobs lit a candle and writes,
    Mr. Yorkston was such an important part of my growing up in the Tatnall Family, and whenever I ran into him as an adult, it was always like coming home to family. He, simply put, made life better for everyone around him, and we were all blessed to know him and be loved by him. My condolences to the family, and please know that he will be missed but never forgotten, because he lives on through all of us.
    03/07/2026 09:22 pm
    Wendie Stabler writes,
    Cam was a lion and lead such a meaningful life in every way, shape and form. He was a gift to Tatnall and to the entire Stabler family in particular. Sincere condolences to Kathy and the Yorkston family on the loss of this beautiful soul. He will live on in all of our hearts and we will all cherish our memories of him and the mind kind deeds he did for others during his life.
    03/10/2026 01:18 pm
    Ann Silliman Lofting writes,
    Kathy- I am so sorry to hear about Cam! I just found out so missed the funeral. He really was such a nice guy and really did have a kind word for everyone . I’ve known him since we were 5 yrs old and had our first date at Cappeau’s soda shop with his parents sitting at the next table! I know you and your family will miss him so much. You are in my thoughts and prayers- Ann
    03/14/2026 08:14 pm
    Lisa Thornton lit a candle and writes,
    My sincere condolences to the family and friends of Mr. Yorkston🪴 The gentleman accomplished a lifetime of noble achievements. May you find comfort in God's promises of the restoration of life and eternal happiness in the coming new world. "And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” And the One seated on the throne said: “Look! I am making all things new.” Also he says: “Write, for these words are faithful and true." Revelation 21:3-5
    03/19/2026 09:29 am

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