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Roberta H. Jolly

Roberta (Bobbie) Hay Jolly passed away on April 21, 2020 at the Country House in Wilmington. Born in Centralia, Illinois on May 19, 1920, Roberta and her twin, Robert, were the children of Robert P. Hay and Gladys K. Hay.

Bobbie graduated from the University of Illinois in 1942 and married Robert E. Jolly in October of that year. Bob passed away in October, 2019 two days before their 77th wedding anniversary. In the early 1940’s Bob and Bobbie lived in Joliet, Illinois; Oak Ridge, Tennessee; and Richland, Washington. They moved to Wilmington in 1945.

During their years in Wilmington, Bobbie participated in numerous organizations and programs including the Wilmington Flower Market, American Association of University Women, Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts, and PTA’s at her children’s schools. She volunteered for Meals on Wheels, was an active member at Silverside Church participating in numerous boards, the Ann Judson Society, and the Community Transportation Service. For several years she was a volunteer in the Literacy for America program.

Following their respective retirements in 1982, Bobbie from The Tatnall School, and Bob from the Du Pont Company, Bob and Bobbie traveled, golfed, played music together in community bands, continued their volunteer activities and were very involved with their adult children, their grandchildren, and their great grandchildren.

Bobbie is survived by her sons, Richard T. Jolly and Roger W. Jolly, and her daughter, Marilyn H. Jolly, and their spouses. She also leaves three grandchildren and five great grandchildren.

The family wishes to thank Phyllis Burley, the staff at Country House, and Vitas Hospice for the wonderful care provided to Bobbie in her last years.

In lieu of flowers, gifts in Bobbie’s memory and honor can be sent to Silverside Church, 2800 Silverside Road, Wilmington, DE 19810 or a charity of choice.

Funeral Services

Services will be held at later date.

Condolences

    Steve and Rose Bolomey lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Richard, Roger and Marilyn, I am deeply saddened by learning the passing of your mother and my aunt Roberta (Bobbie). Uncle Bob had kept me informed of her health. And I really do believe they were meant for each other and truly loved one another. One does not find this kind of love often but when one does, it becomes a life-long commitment. Both will be missed and their memory ill live on. I remember only once when I last saw here was when my grandfather (your father) , Robert C. and I dropped in for a surprise visit while you all were living in Wilmington, DE. I still remember the surprised look on everyones faces when Uncle Bob opened the door. Though I do not remember much of that visit, it still gives me joy when I think about ALL of you. I will pray for solace and comfort for all of you and know that our Heavenly Father will forever embrace them and welcome them in His Kingdom. Your cousin, Steve Bolomey
    04/27/2020 02:24 pm
    Barbara Whisman
    04/27/2020 03:20 pm
    Barbara Whisman (Wright) writes,
    Dear Dick, Roger, and Marilyn, Please accept my sincere condolences on the death of your mother. It is so difficult to lose a parent, but I imagine that you have many happy memories that will help sustain you during this sad time. I have fond memories of our time together growing up in Graylyn Crest. My sympathy to all of you and your families. Sincerely, Barbara
    04/27/2020 03:25 pm
    Jackie Dietrich ( Christiansen) writes,
    Dear Marilyn,Roger and Dick, I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I know it is a difficult time for you all. I’m also sorry to see you lost your Dad in October. I’m living in Ocean View DE I’ve been thinking of you Marilyn and hope you’re doing well You are all in my thoughts and prayers Love, Jackie
    04/27/2020 05:07 pm
    Kristina Satterfield writes,
    Roger, Dick, and Marilyn: Sending you well wishes for the loss of both your parents in the past year. What a wonderful example they set for us all. I will remember their love for everyone and their smiles.
    04/28/2020 09:51 pm
    Glenn and Edith Smith writes,
    Our sympathy to you and your family on the death of your mother. It was wonderful to hear Roger playing the piano Sunday. Glenn & Edith Smith, Limestone Church
    04/29/2020 06:05 pm

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