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Carmela Garofalo Lombardo

Carmela Garofalo Lombardo passed away peacefully, surrounded by love and family on Friday, May 24th, 2019. She is survived by her three living children, Giuseppe, Anna, and Marco, her beloved grandson, Benjamin, her husband, Mario, and her four living siblings, Fidel, Giulio, Beatrice, and Pinella. Carmela is reunited with her son, Vincenzo, who passed away in 1997, her brother Jose Vicente, and her parents Vincenzo Garofalo and Carmen Ramona Laya.

Known as Carmen, or Carmencita to many who were close to her, she had an easy smile that radiated love and kindness. Through many happy years and also during difficult times, Carmen was the light that guided her family. Her spirit was an inspiration to those who were close to her. Despite the many challenges that she faced, Carmen always embraced all the love, laughter, and joy that life could bring. Her courage is an example that her children live by, and they feel blessed to have such an amazing person as a mother. She saw the best in others and her generosity led her to many acts of kindness toward friends and strangers alike. She is loved deeply, and all of her friends and family grieve at losing her. She will be missed by us all, but she will also be remembered with great love, and fond memories.

Carmen was born in Caracas, Venezuela and spent her youth between Venezuela and the south of Italy. She enjoyed a bucolic childhood in Licusati, Italy, a small village near the Mediterranean Sea and attended a school for girls in Florence, Italy. She had many happy and beautiful memories from these years that she carried with her throughout her life. Her hometown of Licusati held a special place in her heart and she made sure to return as frequently as possible for extended stays to her childhood home. She and Mario met in high school and married in 1973 while they were both students at University of Napoli Federico II in Naples, Italy. They started their family in Salerno, Italy and lived in Rome for several years before immigrating to the United States. After many years lovingly dedicated to raising her children at home, she completed a bachelor’s degree from the University of Delaware in Spanish Education and later completed a Masters of Education degree at Wilmington College. She went on to work as the ELL Testing Specialist for Red Clay Consolidated School District for many years, where she enjoyed lasting friendships with her colleagues and welcoming students who arrived to her district from around the world.

Carmen had a zest for life that anyone around her could sense. Even until the end of her days, her smile embodied the joy and excitement about life that is usually only found in young children. She had a keen sense of humor, loved to play Chopin on the piano, had an impressive green thumb, was an avid reader, and had a talent for capturing her love for life in the food that she made – something that anyone who shared a table with her could appreciate. As a mother, Carmen gave her all to her children. They will forever be grateful for all that she has given them. Her intelligence, kindness, curiosity, compassion, and beauty will live on in the hearts of her children and all those who loved her.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in her name to UNICEF at https://www.unicefusa.org/help/donate.

Funeral Services

Visitation will be held from 9:30 am to 10:30 am on Saturday June 8, 2019 at St. Joseph on the Brandywine Church, 10 Old Church Road, Wilmington, DE 19807. The Memorial Mass will follow at 10:30 am.

Condolences

    Ed and Nhung Sweeney and Family lit a candle and writes,
    Heaven is a better place with Carmen and Vince.
    05/31/2019 06:36 am
    Letitia and Patrick Kanar writes,
    Marco (and family), We are so sorry for your loss. Your mother was a very special woman. Hold onto the happy memories and smile when you think of her. I am sure that she is smiling down from Heaven with so much love for all of you. May you find comfort and peace as you go through this difficult time. With deepest sympathy, Letitia and Patrick
    05/31/2019 07:42 am
    Angela Trani lit a candle and writes,
    No words can express how deeply saddened I am to learn of the passing of Carmen. You perfectly captured Carmen's beautiful spirit in your tribute to her and in the photo you chose of her radiant smile. She is one of the kindest people I have ever met in my life and I will forever hold Carmen close to my heart. She was truly an extraordinary person. I know her legacy will live on in all of you. Please know that I am thinking of you and praying for you through this devastating loss. Sending hugs and love. ❤ With deepest sympathy, Angela
    05/31/2019 08:43 am
    Bijan Paksima writes,
    Dear Joe. This is Bijan (Bahram's cousin). I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My condolences to you and your family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
    05/31/2019 03:40 pm
    Stefanie Levendis
    06/01/2019 10:43 am
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    06/01/2019 10:46 am
    Julia Sanchez writes,
    Carmelita fue una personita muy importante y querida para mi!! Siento mucho su partida! Que en paz descanse! Mis mas profundas y sinceras condolencias❤
    06/02/2019 08:19 am
    Mary Connor lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest sympathy to the Lombardo Family. Mary Connor (Brian's mother)
    06/02/2019 10:58 am
    John Giamalis & Cathy McAdams lit a candle and writes,
    God bless you all during this difficult time.
    06/02/2019 07:01 pm
    Leila Alavi writes,
    To our dear Uncle Joey and family, we are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers. With love, Bahram, Leila, Cyrus and Sima
    06/03/2019 01:57 pm
    Mary Beth (Giudice) & Michael Daly lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Mario, Pepe, Anna and Marco, We are so sorry to hear about Carmecita. I will forever remember her as a sweet and gentle women. Soft spoken with so much warmth and compassion. She was so strong and really an inspiration on how to survive difficulties with a positive and faithful outlook. I know you will feel her love for you always and I will remember her with great fondness. The first time we met, you children were all so little and my family was crazy about you guys! Marco wasn't even born yet. Even thought we don't get to see you often I have great memories. I wish you all love. Mary Beth, Michael, Jake, Kamryn and Jeremy
    06/04/2019 07:40 am
    Christine Hostler lit a candle and writes,
    My son Matthew has been friends with Marco for awhile and visited his home many times. Matt always spoke so kindly of Mrs. Lombardo and how he was welcomed into her home and how much he enjoyed her home cooking. That always made me feel good too. I will keep your mother in my prayers as well as your family. “Give her eternal rest, O Lord, and may perpetual light shine on her forever.”
    06/06/2019 10:03 am
    Scott lit a candle and writes,
    Prayers for your family! Dio ti benedica!
    06/06/2019 08:36 pm
    Adrienne Scarlett writes,
    Carmela, your love, nurturing, patience, and caring could be found in every conversation that we ever had. Whether we were in the classroom, Boscov’s, or the doctor’s office, you never failed to smile and ask about others. Please know that your dedication touched many, and your light will continue to shine. May your family have comfort in knowing that “the ‘old guard’ at Lewis” will never forget you!
    06/07/2019 08:28 pm
    Balbina Ventura lit a candle and writes,
    My dear and sweet friend Carmela, you will be forever in my heart. To: Garofalo and Lombardo families, I am so sorry for your loss. God bless you durning this difficult time. You are in my prayers. With love, Balbina
    06/07/2019 11:39 pm
    Marjorie Kafader writes,
    The world is a darker, colder place without Carmen's sunny smile and outlook, always making every situation better for those around her. How blessed I was to know her! We shared our last 4 birthdays together- hers Feb. 6, mine, Feb. 9, and were overjoyed to get the same birthday gift when we opened our cards to find sonogram pictures of our soon-to-be little darling grandson, Benjamin Vincenzo Kafader!! What a blessing for us both! That dinner cemented our bond and we looked forward to watching this new little life grow. I will do all I can to keep her spirit alive for him in the coming years. She is sorely missed by all who loved her. But how happy she must be to be reunited with her Vincenzo and all those she loved that have gone on before her. We'll meet again one day. Til then, we carry her in our hearts, with gladness. We are all better people to have known her. Thank you, God, for our Carmen!
    06/18/2019 10:07 am

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