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David Howard Nixon

It is with great sadness that we announce David Howard Nixon, age 74, passed away peacefully on September 15, 2025, at Rockland Place after a long battle with Parkinson’s Disease.

A long-time Wilmington resident, David was born in Kansas but raised in Auburn and Woodstown, Salem County, New Jersey.  David attended Oldsmans Township Grammar School and played football at Woodstown High School, where he graduated in 1970.

David attended the University of Kansas and later returned to Wilmington, where he continued his education at the University of Delaware while working for General Motors Boxwood Plant. He graduated with a degree in mechanical engineering and went on to become a real estate agent before eventually helping his friend Vance Kershner start Labware Inc., dedicating 35 years to the company as the office administrator.

David was a friend, a colleague, a mentor, a brother, a husband, and a father. He lived the kind of life we all hope to have for ourselves. He had a love for traveling, sailing, scuba diving, tennis, hunting, fishing, and singing. But above all, he loved playing the guitar. Music was a part of him; that was clear to anyone who had the pleasure of seeing him play. Family meant everything to David; he was the kind of person who would move mountains for those he loved. His brilliant mind, adventurous spirit, and infectious smile will be profoundly missed.

David  leaves behind his beloved and devoted wife Colleen, daughter Hunter Grace, and stepson Joseph N Grillo III, along with his three sisters, Valerie (Jim) Caufield, Michele (Rex) Hay, and Sheila (Robert) Gluck.

The family would like to express gratitude to the staff and medical professionals at Rockland Place for all their love and support over the last 10 months, especially the Pathway team. David was never one to be coddled and his willful spirit truly gave the staff a run for their money.In addition I would like to extend a gracious thank you to VITAS Hospice who treated David with respect and true professional love.

It is with love that David’s daughter Hunter offers this poem in tribute to her father

‘In Blackwater Woods” by Mary Oliver

Look, the trees are turning their own bodies into pillars of light, are giving off the rich fragrance of cinnamon and fulfillment, the long tapers of cattails are bursting and floating away over

the blue shoulders of the ponds, and every pond, no matter what its name is, is nameless now.

Every year everything I have ever learned in my lifetime leads back to this: the fires and the black river of loss whose other side is salvation, whose meaning none of us will ever know. To live in this world you must be able to do three things: to love what is mortal; to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it; and, when the time comes to let it go, to let it go.

Funeral Services

A Celebration of Life for family and friends will be held on Sunday, October 12, 2025, at 1:00pm  at Chandler Funeral Home, 2506 Concord Pike, Wilmington, DE. A visitation will be held prior to the service from 12:00 to 1:00pm.  Interment will be private.

Condolences

    Roland Shorter Jr (Junie) lit a candle and writes,
    So sorry to hear of the loss of David. I first met David, when we were playing football for WHS. We were good friends after that. God bless the family and give the comfort needed at this time.
    09/26/2025 04:21 pm
    Donna Gallucio lit a candle and writes,
    Colleen and Hunter, Greg and I are so sorry for your loss. David was a great brother in law and we will really miss him! If you need us for anything don't hesitate to ask. We love you both! Love, Greg and Donna Gallucio
    09/26/2025 05:27 pm
    Mauria lit a candle and writes,
    My thoughts and prayers during this hard time. You all are in my prayers 🙏 ❤️
    09/26/2025 05:38 pm
    Carole and Rick Rebmann writes,
    Dear Colleen, you were a close family and you have each other now to lean on. Share all those good, loving memories and be sure David is at rest. Hugs and love to you and your family.
    09/26/2025 07:19 pm
    Kathleen Craig Curate, WHS '73 writes,
    Condolences to family and friends. Well done good and faithful Servant. Take your rest.
    09/26/2025 09:12 pm
    Simon Watts lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest condolences and sorry for your troubles. 20 years ago when I joined LabWare, it was Dave who reached out and took time to explain how things worked. Dave hung the first Dartboard in the canteen for all of us to enjoy using. So many times I enjoyed playing guitar with Dave at his house and always came away grateful for his wisdom and kindness. Dave will always be in our hearts and minds, 180!! Love from Simon
    09/27/2025 07:06 pm
    Willard Glenn lit a candle and writes,
    My deepest sympathy to the family of David. Fond memories of tipping a few at Kid Shelleens in the early days, So very sorry to hear.
    09/27/2025 07:46 pm
    deborah phillips writes,
    In admiration for a man and beautiful wife and daughter that stood for Love and support for each other. Lord keep in your hands and help to heal and strengthen them.
    09/27/2025 08:03 pm
    Rob Burrus lit a candle and writes,
    I send my deepest sympathy to David’s family. We had a lot of great tennis matches over the years. I am sad that he is gone. He will be truly missed by all that knew him. He was a good friend.
    09/28/2025 07:39 pm
    Douglas Camp writes,
    To me Dave was a complex and kind man, the first person in Delaware to reach out to me when I began to work for the same company. I would travel there weekly for work, with a lot of time on my hands, Dave was always available to play tennis (I'm a bit better) or guitar (Dave was infinitely better!), or just to meet for lunch or dinner. I always enjoyed our conversations -- we disagreed about so many things, but the discussion was never boring -- always interesting, and you never knew where it would take you -- Dave will be missed.
    09/29/2025 10:23 am
    Sheila Gluck lit a candle and writes,
    I have so much love for him and I am grateful that he’s not suffering anymore. He’s my brother and I could always count on him for support. We all share memories and grieve together. He was a great brother and he loved his family so much. My condolences to Colleen and Hunter, and Joseph. We all lost a hero in this world but we all look forward to seeing him again in the next chapter. We will treasure his memory for as long as we live. Sheila and Robert
    09/29/2025 11:52 am
    Desiree Meding Harb writes,
    We are very sorry to learn of David's passing. Some people you may have known many decades ago leave impressions that last a lifetime, and David was one of those people. His intelligence and work ethic, his love for his family, his sarcastic wit, his love of gathering in nature and singing and playing music made him special and unique. Our prayers for his family at this time. Rest in peace, David. We all come from God, and we all return to Him. Desiree Harb, and Jim and Margie Atallian
    09/29/2025 05:28 pm
    Mark Gonzalez writes,
    We were saddened to hear of Dave's passing. As for most people at LabWare, Dave was the first person to welcome me to the office. He always made sure that we were well taken care of. In many ways, he set the positive tone at the office. I appreciate in particular his attention to our kids during the many worldwide trips we did together. My family and I wish Colleen, Hunter and all of Dave's nearest and dearest heartfelt condolences. Mark, Åsa, Carl-Johan, Oscar and Joanna.
    10/11/2025 10:11 am

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