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Mary Marshall

Mary Marshall, age 62, of West Grove, PA, passed away peacefully in her home on August 9th, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. Mary was born in Wilmington to Robert and Mary Rickert. After graduating from University of Delaware, Mary raised three children. During that time, she worked various jobs and was involved with numerous charities.

Mary loved traveling with her family, especially the cherished summers spent at Bethany Beach in her parents’ beach house. As a lover of great food, the many trips to Disney World, and family cruises allowed her to find new dishes and tell stories about them for years to come. Additionally, Mary enjoyed the vacations down to Clear Water, Florida, where she and husband Dwayne dreamed of happy retirement on the sunny beaches.

Those who knew Mary will remember her kindness, her readiness to lend a helping hand, and the goodwill and selflessness she consistently embodied. As a mother, she fully dedicated herself to raising her three children—nurturing their growth, supporting their dreams, and shaping their character with grace. As a wife, she was a loving and devoted partner, steadfast in her commitment during decades of marriage. And as a bartender at the Hockessin VFW, she offered more than service—she extended friendship, warmth, and kindness to the military veterans who served the country she loved so dearly.

She is survived by her husband Dwayne Barlow, a veteran of the US Navy, and her three children Daniel, Kaitlynn, and John Marshall. She is also survived by her siblings, Mike Rickert, Bette Talley, and Tricia Hudson as well as Mary’s many beloved nieces and nephews.

Mary’s family would like to thank the responsive staff of Brandywine River Valley Hospice for the compassionate care that they provided to Mary in her final days. They would also like to thank the many nurses and physicians at Christiana Hospital for the attentive and professional medical treatment she received during her stay.

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Funeral Services

A Graveside service for Mary will take place at 11:00am on Friday August 15, at Hockessin Friends Cemetery, 1501 Old Wilmington Road, Hockessin, DE.

Condolences

    Lehrer family lit a candle and writes,
    We remember Mary fondly.. Our condolences to the entire Marshall family. Rip Mary
    08/11/2025 01:08 pm
    Denise and Dot Parsons lit a candle and writes,
    Our thoughts and prayers go out to Dwayne, Katie, Jack and Daniel. Enjoyed sitting on the back porch talking. Great neighbors. Ellie sure misses her mommy. We’re here if you need anything. Dee and Dot.
    08/11/2025 03:10 pm
    Patti and Richard Hobson writes,
    Mary was always kind and good sense of humor. Loved her cooking shows when she was working. Proud of her children and loved Dwyane and her little dog. She will be missed. She deserves to rest in peace.
    08/11/2025 07:10 pm
    Fred susie writes,
    The world is diminished, sorry for tour los
    08/12/2025 07:43 am
    Desiree Harper writes,
    Mary was a kind soul, witty, charming and always there when others needed her. My condolences to Dawyne and her children whom she was always so proud of.
    08/12/2025 08:21 am
    Ken and Karen Johnson lit a candle and writes,
    We have so many wonderful memories of Mary. She was always delightful to be around. She was an amazing cook, a loyal friend and all around good person. The world lost someone so special but Mary is at peace now and for that we are grateful. Our thoughts turn to Dwayne, Kate, Jack, Danial and her precious Ellie now and I'm sending prayers of comfort. RIP dear Mary "I love you".
    08/12/2025 09:35 am
    Matt Hoopes writes,
    Sorry for your loss. Will keep you and your family in our prayers .
    08/12/2025 12:14 pm
    Karen and Dave Keats lit a candle and writes,
    Dan,Katie,Jack and Dwayne . We are so saddened to hear of Mary’s passing. The time we met and spent with her 7 years ago. She was a very helpful and sweet woman. We really enjoyed our time with her.Hold onto and cherish your precious memories of her. It will help in the difficult days ahead. She is free from pain and suffering. RIP Mary
    08/12/2025 08:04 pm
    Tommy Murray writes,
    I continue to be stunned and speechless at the loss of our Mary Beth. No one can prepare us for this type of loss. I am sending strength and support to everyone at this time, XO
    08/14/2025 06:34 pm
    Phillip Hudson writes,
    My Aunt Mary was such a kind and caring woman, and I feel lucky to have called her my Godmother. She will be deeply missed.
    08/15/2025 01:47 pm
    Pam & Gus Brittingham writes,
    Dwayne, Gus & I have many good memories at Hilltop with you and Mary. She was soft spoken and funny. We had many good conversations. Hold on to the good memories. May Mary rest in peace. Praying God comforts you in the days and weeks ahead. Take care of yourself and stay well.
    08/15/2025 03:43 pm
    John Walsh lit a candle and writes,
    I am truly saddened by the loss of my cousin Mary. Mary, being my first cousin to pass, hits especially hard, as I have always felt a special bond with all my "Finlay" cousins - the children of four amazing women who despite hardship made this world a better place through their faith and love. My thoughts and prayers are with Dwayne, her children, and her siblings Mike, Bette, and Tricia. May your grief be lessened by Mary's sweet and kind demeanor and the joy she spread to everyone who knew her. I have fond memories growing up with Mary Beth in New City, NY - going to summer swim practices together and celebrating birthdays and holidays with her and the entire Rickert family. She was truly a gem. May God bless her.
    08/16/2025 10:44 am
    Lisa Scarduzio writes,
    Sending my deepest condolences to everyone that had the opportunity to spend time with Mary. Sending love and prayers to her families. In life, Mary was a witty, fun, loving, honest, smart, and thoughtful friend, mother, and wife. She enjoyed life. I will remember our Lobster Sundays and Friday night dancing at the Hilltop. In death, Mary's spirit will be watching over her loved ones. We have all gained a guardian angel. Peace and Prayers sincerely.
    08/20/2025 02:32 pm
    Bodge Inglee writes,
    I am so sorry for your loss.
    09/07/2025 08:33 pm

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