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Lynda P. Stellenberg

Lynda Stellenberg nee Miller, 77, of Wilmington, Delaware, passed away peacefully at home, surrounded by love , on May 18.

Born in 1948, in Philadelphia, Lynda spent her childhood there before building a beautiful life rooted in love, education, and community. She was married to her devoted husband, Jay, for 55 years- a true partnership that served as the foundation for a close-knit and cherished family.

Lynda earned her bachelor’s degree in Elementary Education from West Chester University and later completed her master’s degree at Wilmington College. A passionate and dedicated kindergarten teacher, she spent over 30 years in the classroom, nurturing young minds and mentoring fellow educators. Her influence in the field of education is lasting, marked by a legacy of compassion, patience, and inspiration.

Family was Lynda’s greatest joy. She treasured vacations with her children and grandchildren, creating memories filled with love and laughter. In her free time, she enjoyed spirited games of canasta and mahjong with friends in Banyan Springs, always quick with a smile and a story. Lynda also had a special love for butterflies, a symbol of beauty and transformation that reflected her spirit.

She is survived by her beloved husband Jay; daughters Jennifer Cipolla (Michael) and Rebecca Beck (Joshua); her adored grandchildren: Samuel, Tyler, Noah, Jordan, Hannah, and Sarah; and her siblings Shelly Miller (Lida) and Earl Miller (Patty). Her memory will forever live on in the hearts of her family, friends, and former students.

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Funeral Services

A memorial service will be held at Temple Beth El on Sunday May 25, 2025 at 11:00 a.m. Shiva will be observed that evening at 7:00 p.m. in the Temko Building at Temple Beth El, 301 Possum Park Road, Newark, Delaware. For those unable to attend in person, a zoom link has been provided:

Lynda Stellenberg Memorial Livestream

Meeting ID: 100 614 900

 

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to Delaware Hospice in Lynda’s memory.

Condolences

    Laurie Ferris lit a candle and writes,
    I will forever cherish my beloved memories of our happy Banyan gatherings, parties, canasta games, concerts, etc. Lynda was my friend. A true friend. A great friend. Love you Lynda, sleep in peace and know that you were well and truly loved. Jay & family I'm so sorry for your loss. I know her body has left this earth but when you see a beautiful butterfly flutter by, that's her saying hi. And may her memory always be a blessing. Love,
    05/19/2025 06:48 pm
    Matt Hemmerich lit a candle
    05/19/2025 08:48 pm
    Sharon Meyer writes,
    I had the pleasure of teaching with Lynda for nine years at Maclary elementary school. Because of her flexible, kind, and cooperative nature, our classroom ran very smoothly. Even though she was regular ed and I special ed, we easily conducted a program where both of us worked with all the children. It was because of her even disposition and caring ways that we were so successful. I missed her friendship when we retired. A more delightful partner, one could never find! Love and condolences to Jay and all her family.
    05/19/2025 09:54 pm
    Melissa Dodd lit a candle and writes,
    My condolences to your family. My thoughts are with you.
    05/19/2025 10:03 pm
    Susan and Jerry Rund writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss. Banyan Springs will miss her. She was a lady .
    05/19/2025 10:50 pm
    Donna Rich lit a candle and writes,
    I am so sorry to hear of Lynda’s passing. My sincerest condolences to all members of the Stellenberg family. I have great memories of Lynda (and Jay) at Darley and am glad to have enjoyed many laughs around the table and she was always very welcoming with her warm smile and spirit. May she rest in peace.
    05/19/2025 11:49 pm
    Fran Miller lit a candle and writes,
    Sweet memories of Lynda from our Maclary days long ago. She was so kind and such an inspiration. Condolences to her family. She loved you so.
    05/19/2025 11:53 pm
    Gerri Gordon writes,
    We are so sorry for your loss. She was such a wonderful person as well as a great sister. We are so glad that we got to meet her and to know what a loving and kind person she was. You are definitely in our hearts and prayers. Love, Gerri & Margaret
    05/20/2025 12:44 am
    Martie (Becker) Sturtevant lit a candle and writes,
    I’m so sorry for your loss. Caring for a loved one at the end is hard but even more so, rewarding. Im glad you had that time together. It will bring you comfort. Many condolences to you and your family. Her children are a beautiful legacy ❤️
    05/20/2025 07:07 am
    Amy (Brown) Niday lit a candle and writes,
    My thoughts and prayers are with you Becky, as well as your whole family. Your mom was always one of the kindest people I knew as we were growing up. I know she will be missed beyond measure.
    05/20/2025 08:55 am
    Roseann & Ritchie Molaison lit a candle and writes,
    What a shock to hear about such a wonderful lady. We are thinking about your family during this hard time. She was a nice friend and neighbor and will be missed terribly.
    05/20/2025 12:52 pm
    Chris McCully writes,
    Jay - I am so saddened to hear about Lynda's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
    05/20/2025 03:45 pm
    Barry Miller lit a candle and writes,
    Brother Jay, Bless You and the entire wonderful family you made together ❤️ My 'Irish Twin' sister Lynda is in my head every day, and forever, wherever I am. Memories of our life together throughout twenty years in Philly are precious. Condolences to our Sister Shelly and Big Brother Earl. Lynda will be eterna)y surrounded by angelic cherubs of kindergarten size. 🪽 With sympathy, Barry Miller New Orleans
    05/20/2025 05:17 pm
    Stephen Starr writes,
    Jay, I am deeply sorry for you and your family's loss of Lynda. It was always a pleasure for Sharon and I to go with Lynda and you to the Blue rocks games. She will be missed by all who knew her.
    05/20/2025 06:44 pm
    Arlene Wilson lit a candle and writes,
    Heartfelt condolences to your family. Lynda was an amazing woman. She touched everyone she met with love and kindness.
    05/21/2025 07:43 am
    Charles Levithan lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Jay Linda and I send our sincere condolences.
    05/21/2025 11:33 am
    James McNinch lit a candle and writes,
    She was a ray of sunshine always in good humor and full of life. Loved to play games with Jay, often winning. Remembered always as a very special person.
    05/21/2025 08:34 pm
    Charles Baldwin lit a candle and writes,
    A very kind woman who raised a wonderful family. Our sincere condolences. Chuck and Rica Baldwin
    05/22/2025 04:43 pm
    Charlotte Baker lit a candle and writes,
    I have many fond memories of Linda at Maclary. My condolences to Jay and the family.
    05/23/2025 08:37 am
    Sheila Weinberg lit a candle and writes,
    We worked together at the Cristina School district in the kindergarten program. She was a lovely person. My condolences to her family, I'm sure she will be missed dearly.
    05/23/2025 08:54 am
    Carol & Matt Finfer
    05/23/2025 09:17 am
    Elaine Fiore writes,
    To Lynda's family, I had the pleasure of knowing Lynda when she was a kindergarten teacher in Kennett Consolidated School District. She had such passion for her students and their families. I will always remember her kindness. With deepest condolences Elaine Fiore.
    05/23/2025 09:28 am
    Charlotte & Harvey Gencher lit a candle and writes,
    To Jay and the entire family, We are heartbroken at the loss of Lynda, “The Lady”. She was the best friend and neighbour we ever could have asked for. Lynda was an inspiration to us, always smiling with her positive attitude. We will truly miss her each and every day. Love, always, Char & Harv 🦋🦋
    05/23/2025 10:47 am
    David Feasel writes,
    Prayers
    05/23/2025 11:29 am
    Dennis and Harolyn Wardell lit a candle and writes,
    Dear Jay, Jennifer and Beca. We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Lynda was a very special person and we are so glad to have shared a friendship with your family. Keep the good memories close.
    05/23/2025 12:11 pm
    Lida Frankel lit a candle and writes,
    Lynda will be profoundly missed. It was my great pleasure to have known her and acquired her as a sister; I only wish it could have been for a longer time. I will always remember that first trip where Shelly brought me to introduce me to "the family". Lynda was clearly the beloved matriarch, and I was a little nervous about winning her over. Thankfully she "approved" and I came to truly appreciate her unique relationship with Shelly as both her elder "protector" and her teasing sister. I am thankful for the trips and other happy occasions I was able to spend with her and the rest of the Stellenberg, Cipolla, and Beck families. All my love and sympathy during this sad time.
    05/23/2025 02:28 pm
    Judy Scheffey writes,
    I remember all the good times we had teaching across the hallway and sharing our students and our laughs.
    05/23/2025 06:04 pm
    Diane Brake lit a candle and writes,
    Jay, I am sobsorry for your loss. Lynda's smile will be sorely missed. If there is anything I can do, please do not hesitate to ask. My thoughts and prayers 🙏 🙏 and love ❤️ are with you and your family.
    05/24/2025 12:40 pm
    Fred & Suzanne Schlapp writes,
    Our deepest condolences on your loss of your beloved Lynda. She was kind and caring and her guidance and wisdom touched many along her path. We are saddened by her passing but also feel blessed to have known her as a dear friend. We will always cherish our fond memories of her.
    05/24/2025 04:32 pm
    Jason and Meredith lit a candle and writes,
    Linda was always so kind. I remember when we first met her in Florida at Banyan. She gave my daughter her whole collection of finger puppets. My daughter still to this day plays with those puppets and we think of her every time we play with them! Thank you Linda!
    05/26/2025 06:46 pm
    Karen Custis lit a candle and writes,
    I had her as my kindergarten teacher at Mary D Lang along with her helper Mrs.Jones. My mom always remembered me coming home and telling her that she wasn’t my boss anymore Mrs.Stellenberg was. I always remembered her as being so kind. I am so sorry for your loss.
    05/28/2025 02:45 am

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